"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Did becoming a more attractive man make you resent some woman?
- Thread starter Jaylan
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Haha I wasn't even making fun of him just making a point! Maybe he's just not in his love mood anymore, it goes through cycles you know.Ronaldo7 said:
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Skinnyguy gets it! It's all about quality.skinnyguy said:
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
the ones who you never knew shouldn't get flack for things they didn't even do.
it's perfectly logical to resent a woman who is only after you cuz you're handsome and successful now.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I don't know if that has to do with me being more "attractive" in a superficial sense or if it's just an experience and maturity thing. I've had lame drunk sex a million times now, I don't really need that anymore.