"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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did anyone do something stupid st. patties day?? I sure did ..

unixguy

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i was wondering if anyone did anything stupid st. patties day. maybe it is just me but the green beer and green komi shots did a number on me.

ill share my story feel free to share advice or share your story.

i have been talking ot this girl named Amy. Might as well be striaght here i met her online. we have been chatting on AO-Hell
since Nov of last year. she had a bf then but over the last few weeks we have really started talking. and the more we talk the more we have figured out that we know people in the same circles. now i have never talked about meeting mainly because i have just been thinking we will run into each other somewher here soon and why rush things. she is cool and it was more of a freindly thing then anything else.

needless to say we started to text message on cell phones. it was cool but weird because she would text me when she got hom and check in here and there and even text me a sweet goodnight and good morning message.

wednesday night i go out to the local pub, have some drinks and shots .. well alot of shots. and for some reaosn i decide to do the drunk call. i got voice mail twice and didnt leave a message. after thinking about it felt dumb for some reason. not sure why but i just felt dumb afterwards. thursday we we were still cool texting though out the day and bs'n. for some reason i decide to write her an email and i come up with some dumb@ss story about hwo someone took my phone and started dailing numbers. to cover the fact that i didnt leave a message. with that said she read the email and now she wont return text messages and no goodnight or good mornin message. and on top of that she blocked me so i dont see that she is online.

now i can take a hint but dang to me that is a little extrememe there. and i dont think she could have gotten that pissed about the cellphone thing. maybe something else happened or she took ofense to something hell i dont know.

it really sucks though she was a cool as girl to talk to but what is a man to do.

unixguy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jay

you know i noticed alot of my guy friends make up lies for no reason. to cover something up that wouldnt have mattered and it blows up in their face. and seeing this time after time instead of being honest and busting out with hey i wanted to talk right then and there and didnt feel like leaving a message. i have to try to save face and say something dumb and it blows up.

NO SENSE I TELL YOU.

she was even talking to me before she read the email.
telling me that she didnt have her phone with her. and what do i do .. let the email go instead of unsending it.

but it does say alot about her anyways.

f it
 

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Maybe you should have just told her you were blitzed, barely remember what you were doing, and felt bad afterwards...

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good story man! Damn, you better watch your drinking. I know I made major ASF blunders in the past while on booze. It sometimes turns me into a wimpering idiot. I wake up the next morning thinking "why did I DO THAT!!" UHGGG! All I can say to is "BOTTOMS UP DUDE!"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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don't see what the problem was with trying to phone her twice.

i can see the problem with the email though, because u were apologising for nothing
 
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