"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did anybody know how to play this good?

oneboy21

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When chicks have a break up, they look for rebound
they give a chance to any guy who they can get a hand on, who ever it may be, it may happen to you or me( it did happened to me).
How do you handle this kind of situations when you know that she is using as rebound.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think the answer is easy.

She uses you as a rebound you use her panties for soup stock. Who cares how you get the pvssy as long as nobody gets hurt?
 

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well here is the thing, she is not going to give up easily
just like any other girl, what kind of mind set, what kind of game we need to play?
 

FairShake

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oneboy21 said:
well here is the thing, she is not going to give up easily
just like any other girl, what kind of mind set, what kind of game we need to play?
I've been the shoulder to cry on, drinking buddy that gets laid. Despite what guys on here say that does work. Alot.

I've also been the fun guy who invites her out with some people to get away from her pains. Liquor, fvck, repeat.

Depends on the kind of woman I guess.
 
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