Did 5 cold approaches today, 1 number

[pipe007]

Im the living proof that anyone can learn how to cold approach successfully
I have had severe social anxiety for the past 25 years of my life...

at some point a month ago I got tired and decided to turn my life around... and that I would do this one thing no matter what it took... no matter if I had to face my worst fears, rejection, humiliation, physical confrontation, or even death...

yeah crazy but I kinda thought that approaching strangers somehow would lead to emotiona, physical or cognitive death... low self esteem I dont know...

anyhow.. I decided that living with this anxiety was worse than facing my fears, and if death or some serious emotional injury was the result of me taking control of my life, then I was sooo frustrated I was willing to face it... no matter what!!!

read nappoleon hill's think and grow rich for this mindset. it helped.

so today, I decided to face my demons and worst fears right in the face and stare it down!!.. to confront it, from now on I made the decision to look at challenges and fearful situations right in the face and confront them..... not avoid them like I used to.... I believe this is the only way to grow as a person now.

so I did today, I approached 5 women,, they were beautiful, I opened with "hey, I saw you when I walked by, and I just wanted to say talk to you for a bit" to my surprise they all smiled and thank me, with the exception of one who became very suspiscious and shy,, and she was like "why do you wanna know my name?????" lol

I just got up and left... so Then I did it again, and this cute blond girl, we talked for 10 minutes, and she didnt want to leave, even though she told me she had a bf!!... she kept playing with her hair and staying there after we said bye.... I got her number and left...

This is the new me,, and I plan on taking this to the next level evey day
hope you guys do the same!!

 

[Diaforetikos]

GOOD SH!T BRO!!

We need more stories like this. Men grab their life's by the horns and taking full control. This is golden. Keep goin!

Let this inspire the low fearful people on this site who constantly flood the main thread with unnecessary questions.

True inspiration. +1

 

[ENIGMA16]

Give us some more details!

 

[pipe007]

I will post details
I think Ill start like a journal to keep track of this,,,, because I truly feel I have completely lost the fear of approaching women... in one freaking day!!!...... I dont know.. I just found a HUGE reason why to do the appraoches

this is HUGE you must have a good reason why you wanna go ahead and start approaching strangers.... I have 10 solid reasons... and NONE of them have to do with dating or meeting the perfect woman... though its a bonus

its about me living the life I always wanted... and it feels great!!!!
so liberating.. to pick and choose who you wanna talk to and do it... because you deserve it,,, because you freaking alive just like anyone else, and you deserve the same chance to get to know that girl just like anyone else...

and if that is so,, and you might not see that girl again.. then the moment you see her is the only chance you have to give yourself the oportunity to meet her... so it is worth it...

but my reasons are not that
if you find huge why's as to why you should even bother on doing this, then you will have the fuel you need to motivate yourself...
for me is this:

-to develop self confidence
- get rid of social anxiety
- develop my character, for every area of life.
- I am a psychology student... so I MUST learn to connect with people
- I wanna teach other guys in the future how to overcome this fears.. as a psychologist.
etc etc

this are MY HUGE reasons, and they alone motivate me to freaking be the best at this game.. because it will help me in the future..

I will create a blog with my progress, im sure you guys will enjoy it as well as I will, I have made myself a machine, i have that feeling now.... today i proved it to myself....

 

[thedude4242]

post the results when you get a date with her. is the purpose of this site to get girls numbers only? or is it to have a relationship, dates and/or sex. I am not knocking anyone at all. it seems like all the info is on how to get a number. even the "pros" on the internet stop the report after they get the number. we need to work more and what we do after.

 

[Masculinity]

I wanna hear more of this! :trouble: haha

 

[blueline]

post the results when you get a date with her. is the purpose of this site to get girls numbers only? or is it to have a relationship, dates and/or sex. I am not knocking anyone at all. it seems like all the info is on how to get a number. even the "pros" on the internet stop the report after they get the number. we need to work more and what we do after.

There's nothing more you can do after the number close until she actually meets up with you. If she meets up with you after a cold approach, it's on unless you **** it up. If she doesn't, oh well.

 

[PapiChulo]

It's a start. Normally you should be looking at 4 out of 5 numbers from women that are not in a hurry or have a boyfriend around.

It's a great confidence builder, yet it wont get you too far though. But now you know you wont miss out when something worth while comes around.