"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dictionary definition of a douchebag

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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San Jose California said:
Look at the dude's pics. EVERY comment on EVERY pic is just hot chicks telling this guy that he's gorgeous... he's a douchebag but he's definitely doing something right too.
yeah, and they're all overtanned guido clubrat skanks.
 

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Guys, if you absolutely insist, hate the game, not the player. Then play it anyway.

I.A.F.Y.B. said:
All we know is that guy added all the good looking girls on his myspace... And ohhh my god they might even send him a message back.

None of that means he is getting pvssy. A couple girls sent him numerous comments. Could be fvcking one of them.

I could even create a myspace account and randomly add "super models" and get a response out of them. It doesn't mean I am the fvcking man...
I don't see the relevance. One can take everything they've learned here and evaluate something as typifying a DJ style or an AFC style regardless of whatever the current results are. If that approach doesn't get results (assuming he lives that way, not just makes a myspace), then we probably need some major revisions to our guidance here.
 
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There is no way that page is real ok. No way. Maybe it is me projecting my own frustrations, but I find it hard to believe that these guinea wannabe gangster douches are even that dumb.
 
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