"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Noone who has a Gerardo video from the 80's on his MySpace can be taken seriously.
This is the worst type of attention grabbing slvtness.
This is the worst type of attention grabbing slvtness.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Ah man, hating on the Guidos again? We all know damn well this guy turns it out with pornstars, and you could too if you tanned like an oompa loompa and had dragon ball Z hair.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
haha I was just thinking of that video. I used to live in Canada, if they weren't middle eastern, from sudan, or asian, they were Italian. Not making any generalizations to all Italians but most of the ones I did know were all douches too.
Fukkin YAY-GA-BAHMS!DJDamage said:
I know this is a parody, but could a sub-culture be any MORE retarded?
This is the reason why they need to drop a nuke on Jersey and be done with it. Wait....I have friends and family from there....
Alright they just need to have open season on douchebags.
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Rollo's right fellows. Before I read any response threads, I looked that myspace over. That myspace is DJ.Rollo Tomassi said:
What matters is that HE believes all of what he's saying. Whether the claims are actually true or not are maybe slightly more than completely irrelevant. Confidence is so rare these days, that women probably come to that guy like starving, mindless animals.
Personally, its not my style... but that style definitely works, like it or not.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
It definitely works when it comes to getting women but he is still a douche, jerks get women but they are still douches. I've also found out way too soon that putting up that type of persona attracts the woman I don't want in my life, the crazy b1tches.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
True but there is a difference between true confidence and someone that is going out of his way to advertise it. How much difference is he from a guy that advertising on myspace that he owns million dollars homes, a yacht and drives expensive sport cars?! is that confidence or showboating?! either way that will sure make women salivate.azanon said:
The guy may be confident but one thing I learned about overhyped ads, is the fact they never live up to it.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre a tard PERIODChrizZ said:
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
And AFCs get laid too, but they're still AFCs. Would you prefer the women that AFCs attract over the women Jerks attract?War Against Betaism said:
It's a tight rope we walk, yes?
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"What matters is that HE believes all of what he's saying. Whether the claims are actually true or not are maybe slightly more than completely irrelevant. Confidence is so rare these days, that women probably come to that guy like starving, mindless animals.
Personally, its not my style... but that style definitely works, like it or not."
100% agreed.
Guys need to realize it doesn't matter what we as men think of another guy's way of carrying himself or how he looks etc.
All that matters is if what that guy is doing is attracting women and sadly the type of personality this guy has is indeed DJ if that is who he really is and he believes in himself with it.
Personally, its not my style... but that style definitely works, like it or not."
100% agreed.
Guys need to realize it doesn't matter what we as men think of another guy's way of carrying himself or how he looks etc.
All that matters is if what that guy is doing is attracting women and sadly the type of personality this guy has is indeed DJ if that is who he really is and he believes in himself with it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
lol that page is AWESOME!! Who gives a rats a$$ about how you portray yourself on myspace? I especially loved the fact he spammed up is page with those AWs! Priceless.
Seriously though, even if this guy's legit, I couldn't player hate on this guy if I wanted to. He's just another guy who thinks he's the sh*t walking this planet. Big deal? I think I'm the realest thing running too. I don't go around advertising it like some people but I run solid game and work hard to look good. I have a solid track record, good life, and don't really envy that many people. Sure this guy flaunts it to the point of excess, I'm sure knocking him off his high horse would satisfy many, but you just gotta go with the flow bros. Focusing on YOU as opposed to mocking others, even when warranted, is a major step to succeeding not only with women but in life in general.
Seriously though, even if this guy's legit, I couldn't player hate on this guy if I wanted to. He's just another guy who thinks he's the sh*t walking this planet. Big deal? I think I'm the realest thing running too. I don't go around advertising it like some people but I run solid game and work hard to look good. I have a solid track record, good life, and don't really envy that many people. Sure this guy flaunts it to the point of excess, I'm sure knocking him off his high horse would satisfy many, but you just gotta go with the flow bros. Focusing on YOU as opposed to mocking others, even when warranted, is a major step to succeeding not only with women but in life in general.
I live on the westcoast so I don't see any stuff like this, but for you guys living back east, are there seriously a lot of dudes walking around with this look? http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/4/49395/15_2008/guidos_small.jpg
Like with that hedgehog hairstyle and goldchains? That is unbelievable.
Like with that hedgehog hairstyle and goldchains? That is unbelievable.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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All we know is that guy added all the good looking girls on his myspace... And ohhh my god they might even send him a message back.
None of that means he is getting pvssy. A couple girls sent him numerous comments. Could be fvcking one of them.
I could even create a myspace account and randomly add "super models" and get a response out of them. It doesn't mean I am the fvcking man...
None of that means he is getting pvssy. A couple girls sent him numerous comments. Could be fvcking one of them.
I could even create a myspace account and randomly add "super models" and get a response out of them. It doesn't mean I am the fvcking man...
Wow, that picture of all of those dudes is scary. How the hell do they all look the same?? And are happy about it. I wonder the same thing, is Ny really filled with those dudes?? The few I have met were real, genuine, a-holes.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.