"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Diamond Rings OMFG

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My twin brother sold his blue sweet a*s "72" Chevelle Super Sport to buy a god d*mn diamond ring for his new wife. Holy Sh*t Mother F*cker this really pi*ses me off beyond belief. Im not soo upset that he used all the money to buy his **** of a wife a diamond ring. What pizzes me off the most is how much of a puzzy my twin brother is. He is soo Beta that it makes me want to throw up as I write this post. This was my bro's only girlfriend he ever had, than had to marry this girl to keep her on a leash, then he sold his Chevelle to buy a diamond ring for this c*nt to show her how much he loves her. Bllllllllllaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh. I think it's stupid for a man to spend a godly amount of hard earned money on something so useless and pathetic (diamong ring) just to show his wife that he loves her. F*ck that. This girl will probably divorce my bro in 8 years because of how he puts her on a pedestool.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I guess you got all the brains when the zygote split :)

What did the SS sell for?
 
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He sold it for $6,500 cash. He should of gotten alot more for it but he was trying to sell it fast as possible to get the money for the diamond ring. It was sweet, it was blue with a white stripe down the middle. It hauled azz.
 
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oh man! That's peanuts!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am recently a new member to sosuave. He sold his car before I found this forum. I would of definitly told my bro to check out this place to get the DJ ideas in his head before he takes his next sh*t. But my bro would probably not comprehend what this site offers because he has his head soo far up his wife's big a*s.
 
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Every time I see that ring on my brother's wife's finger I see my brothers ball's inside that ring blaaaaaahhhhhhhhh.
 
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iwanttofight said:
This girl will probably divorce my bro in 8 years because of how he puts her on a pedestool.
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What makes you think it will take 8 years?
 
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iwanttofight said:
Every time I see that ring on my brother's wife's finger I see my brothers ball's inside that ring blaaaaaahhhhhhhhh.
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That's sounds like an afc to me but honestly i've learned that majority of AFC's will only learn from experience. No matter how hard you try to unplug them from the matrix, it will only further frustrate you. All my friend did was try to teach me and when i hit rock bottom he was there to say i told u so and helped pick me back up. just be there for your bro after he crashes. It may be 2, 5 or ever 10 years but it will hit him hard when everything he's built his life on is gone which is his woman.
 
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iwanttofight said:
Every time I see that ring on my brother's wife's finger I see my brothers ball's inside that ring blaaaaaahhhhhhhhh.
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hahahahahaha. Good call!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alle_Gory said:
What makes you think it will take 8 years?
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Really. I'll give it 8 days.
 
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That sounds a bit silly. I would never sell my car for a ring. I don't need to anyway. :D :D
 
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It is frustrating when friends and family act AFC...you can see what's happening but sometimes you feel like there's nothing you can do about it because they just won't listen. It's like a train crash waiting to happen... the thing that sucks the most is that you have to be there to pick up the pieces for your friends/family when $hit hits the fan.

Such is life I guess.
 
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JonJaper said:
It is frustrating when friends and family act AFC...you can see what's happening but sometimes you feel like there's nothing you can do about it because they just won't listen. It's like a train crash waiting to happen... the thing that sucks the most is that you have to be there to pick up the pieces for your friends/family when $hit hits the fan.

Such is life I guess.
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The thing is you can't go about the way of just pointing out what they are doing wrong as they will not have the same perspective and experience that you do.

You have to lead by example, if they see you as that guy who doesn't sweat women and has a good time, good outlook on life, has no problem with women, they will naturally look up to you and want to follow in your example. We've all seen it, that suave guy who has no trouble with women and we all want to be like him (or at least have some traits that he has), and if he told us we were doing something wrong we would be inclined to listen.

On the other hand if we have a guy unplugged from the Matrix, but doesn't really know enough to swing the game in his favor, even though he can point out what another person is doing wrong, other people won't listen to him because they don't really see him as the type of guy to be giving that sort of advice.
 
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Sad ...

That's my opinion though. Update us in a year to see if it was worth it or not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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