"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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diablo I am 16....

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Quite honestly i don't see the point in this post, I mean seriously what are you exactly trying to prove here? That a 16 year old can get a 20 year old? I'm sure that you're quite fond of your victory, which any person at 16 who nails a 20 year old would. But it seems like you're actually caring if people criticize you, and "try" to bring you down. Stop talkin about yourself, if you're good, then you're good all you need is self-assurance. No one needs to know that you're a Don Juan but yourself. When Casanova saw he could seduce many women he didn't say "I'm strong in the game at 16 years old." Let others see that you're good by the tips and advice you give out. And your friends and relatives know by noticing how many girls suddenly always talk to you. You shouldn't have to say anything. If they decide not to read your posts of advice (which i can almost guarantee you we will) then so be it. You're havin fun, you're being you and you can't start to care what people think, that's only going to make you question yourself. Good luck




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Really though, If i were you, i wouldn't post in this topic anymore.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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charm artist

I just want to say thank you I greatly respect your advice.
 

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heres how I do:
1. Looks: sorry guys, but just look at the cold hard facts, they matter
2. ENVIRONMENT: This is a big one for me, not many people notice, but the environment you are in can very much effect the outcome of your situation.
3. being desperate, very true, girls can smell that **** like bad odor and dont like it.
4. just starting conversation.. like Dom said, treat her like a HUMAN! she has feelings just like you and me lol
5.clues: looking for obvious clues and signs that this chick is in to you to begin with, for example: if you notice that this broad is continuasy glancing and/or turning her head at you, you know youve got her... period, stare back N hold that gaze right back N smile *****es.
6.THE BOLD MOVE: Im not afraid to tell this girl shes cute, or put my arm around her or even kiss her, if this broad digs you, she wont care, she'll love it.

:rolleyes:

No offense man, but this isn't "higher pimposophy", it's basic common game that's been mentioned here 3000000000x already.

p.s. how come you don't have any photos?
 

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its obvious why I dont have photos, dont try and b.s. with me, and yeah, my stuff sounds CLICHE, but you also need not look nervous, body lang. and that other ****.... or like basic ****, but when actually brought together its real good, k bud?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just because you are 16 and hookin up with a 20yo doesn't mean we all have to bow at your f@ckin feet KID. At 17 I hooked up w/ a 22yo but I didn't come here trying to rule the forums like a certain symp I know.

Show us o Great One how we are supposed to up our games into your higher levels of 'pimposophy.'

Better yet, ban this tool.
 

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Originally posted by IRONMAN22
its obvious why I dont have photos, dont try and b.s. with me, and yeah, my stuff sounds CLICHE, but you also need not look nervous, body lang. and that other ****.... or like basic ****, but when actually brought together its real good, k bud?
so your posts here will teach us at sosymp to 'not look nervous, body lang. and that other ****....or like basic ****, that will look real good.' no one else, in the history of sosymp could have taught us to do that, but you can.

stop the press.
enough beer will make you 'not look nervous, body lang. and that other ****.....or like basic ****, that will look real good.' and i know theres alot of guys that will back me up on this.

otherwise, repitition will fix up things like nervousness.

GROUNDBREAKING.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DEAD MEAT

Iron Man---your a joke me and my friend go on this site a lot and we traced ur IP number and ur that fag in Biology who kept picking his nose and licking it.
 

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whos diablo? whats happening?
 

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
whos diablo? whats happening?
Diablo is a moderator.
and you could make a BIG case for him as the biggest pimp and most helpful member of the community. - i think a bigger pimp COULD be found, but i doubt anyone could be more helpful, even if there is a bigger pimp. he's pimp. and thats all that matters.

you'll find him in Anything Else most often. but there was a thread that Ironman directed at someone? and diablo closed it. ironman made a new thread, diablo responded to him in that. and now this ironmans truce call.
-sorry if my recolection is slightly out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Ever onward
Yes but who are you really? For that matter, who am I?
i thought i was you, but we were both just replying at the same time.
dammit!
 

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I am posting under a different name.. yes.... most indeed. But I am a certified expert, one of the top 10% of the users on this website... that gives great advice, trust me.

People like the shezzler, p*ssyeater, and ironman22 are one hit wonders, they're like clowns that bust inside your workplace or classroom and flashing lights all over and then disappear spreading false hopes when people like me GIVE YOU TRUE HOPE...
 

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i thought i was you, but we were both just replying at the same time.
dammit!
:D

I couldn't possibly manage a secret identity, being ever onward is challenging enough.
 

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I am posting under a different name.. yes.... most indeed. But I am a certified expert, one of the top 10% of the users on this website... that gives great advice, trust me.
I know exactly who you are.
 

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Originally posted by Ever onward
I know exactly who you are.
"because Ever Onward knows this, i know this"

no wait. i don't! we're not the same person. tell me :)

or don't i don't really care.
i'm going to make some toast :)
bye.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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