"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DHVing Sets You've Already Entered

Lil Magic

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Once you've entered say, a five set of girls your aquainted with already from some other time. A couple of guys may or may not be in the set. What are your best ways of demonstrating higher value, particularly if the previous time you've done the opposite and demonstrated lower value?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lil Magic said:
Once you've entered say, a five set of girls your aquainted with already from some other time. A couple of guys may or may not be in the set. What are your best ways of demonstrating higher value, particularly if the previous time you've done the opposite and demonstrated lower value?
1. Open an adjacent set, flash game.
2. Come in with some female friends.
3. Have a different fun and positive vibe (opposite of when you DLV'ed)
 

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VIBING...........vibe with everyone in the group.........DUDE WHATS UP......HIGH FIVE, CLICK GLASSES, I got this round........etc.

DON'T ATTEMPT THIS BUT,.............I actually did the moon walk when some micheal jackson tune came on at the bar I was at.............the set of 6 cheered me on............It was totally whack and I threw in some crotch grabbin and screamed "COME ON IN KIDS".

in retrospect they musta thought I was on drugs......but they sure remembered me.
 
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