"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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2Rocky

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Curious who folks designate for their Durable Financial Power of Attorney and Medical Directive Agent if they are not married.

When do you think an LTR qualifies for that responsibility?
Especially when your parents are elderly.
Do you grant your Siblings that right?
When do you think Adult Children possess the ability to act on your behalf if you are incapacitated?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would consider giving it to my child if they are 25+ and are reasonable/have their sh1t together. But that can potentially be a difficult spot to put them in too. I think siblings generally are better so long as you hold a close relationship with them.

LTRs are tricky. It would have to be pretty serious and that is a very big responsibility to give to a person not related by blood and who isn't your wife. I would shy away from it completely to be honest.
 
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