backseatjuan
Banned
It's much easier to post a post on this site, than to search for answers.
Where is HB scale?
I can not find it.
Where is HB scale?
I can not find it.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Devs... and mods..
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
backseatjuan
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logicallefty
Moderator
Google can search a site better than most sites can search them selves, not just SoSuave. Try this in the Google search bar, exactly like this:
“hb scale” site:sosuave.net
“hb scale” site:sosuave.net
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
Banned
@logicallefty I did
That’s how I search sosuave anyway
I did not find it.
There used to be a scale!!
And it looked like descriptions with photos. Went from 10 to 1 I think. And no one thought that there is a 10.
That’s how I search sosuave anyway
I did not find it.
There used to be a scale!!
And it looked like descriptions with photos. Went from 10 to 1 I think. And no one thought that there is a 10.
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SeekerOfTheWay
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i have been curious about this! Following. Think i’m a solid 5.5.
backseatjuan
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Mother f’r I’m a 5.6