"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Developing the ability to next a girl.

spiegel549

spiegel549

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I have come a long way with developing and improving my "game" with women. Something I still am having trouble with is that I tend to get attached to a girl too fast, and knowing she isn't a girl you want to take home to mom I still pursue.

I have a pretty busy lifestyle between working, exercising etc. but I always seem to get "one-I-tis" with new girls I meet because I don't have any other plates spinning right now.

I am going so far as meeting chicks online and spending my time chatting with a girl who lives in another state...most of the time its sexually driven like I am bored and want to watch a girl strip on a webcam but when she says she's going to be on and she isn't on I get frustrated..and I know I shouldn't care....especially with a chick like that lol.

I understand this is lame as fcuk but its the last thing that I am trying to overcome to finish my "new and improved self."


Any tips or pointers on making it easier to next the girls that I know aren't keepers?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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first off...don't waste time chatting with girls in different states....coherce them to drive over to your place to bang them...also get out and meet girls where you live.....and try to be meeting more chicks in the real world than oline or at least keep it balanced...

As far as not caring or getting attached you just need more and more experience and conquer that feeling on your on and find some kind of hobby or sport that you really love doing and make that your number one goal to get better at...for example, i have Longfist Kungfu....

As far as nexting or the ability to next...you just do it....then it gets easier and easier...it's all on you man...a personal battle if u will.....and when you exercise or do your sport or whatever it is that you do...push yourself to your limit constantly...this makes you realize you are better than any woman and she can't compare to you because most women can't and don't have the willpower to do this nor the passion...a handful of exceptions of course..but this mentality makes you stronger and less needy in general...
 
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