Developing guts

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Cinamon

Senior Don Juan

Sep 28, 2009

I dont know how well this would work for guys, but what i found use to give me confidence and a certain energy boost was wearing super sexy underwear.... obviously under my clothes. It kind of just adjusted my mindeset to a naughty mischievious place, helped me relax a bit more and conversations would just flow easier.

Why not try going out wearing a thong under your clothes and see if that does anything for you.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.