Developing extreme masculinity

[Lysander]

Although Pook goes on at length about extreme masculinity and testosterone as a source of attraction and success with the ladies, he does not go into the specifics of how to attain that masculine vibe, and sexual aura.

I train with the weights and eat heavy ( I am 6 foot, 175 lbs at around 12-15% bodyfat), but it has not made a significant impact on my testosterone levels, and I still have very little libido. Are there any other tips you can give a desexualised AFC such as myself?

 

[Bungo Pony]

From reading your "intro" post, I highly doubt that it's you testosterone level that is your problem. Personally, I didn't bother to read that whole testosterone post that Pook wrote. Honestly, I found it useless. Try working on initiating conversation with strangers as a start. This would be a huge step in the right direction for you.

 

[AKA FLEX]

Find a hot girl and get her naked. I'm guessing you won't have any problems with your libido at that point.

 

[Charm]

You should take a look at several things. One, diet. You may not be getting enough water and so production of natural chemicals in the body may be less possible. Also, you may want to start taking substances that contain Argenine. I highly recommend Optium Whey Protein shakes, which contain tons of essential vitamins/minerals as well as your daily protien doses. www.bodybuilders.com has very cheap packages of Optium Whey.

Also you may want to try PC exercises, meaning exercises where you contract and then relax the prostate muscle. This will increase the blood flow in the genital area of the body and harden erections, increase the amount and velocity of ejaculation and increase sexual sensitivity and prowess. Don't expect results for at least 2 weeks. Proper instructions should be taken, websites such as www.penilefitness.com can explain in more detail.

 

[TDK4]

6 foot 175 isnt that big if youre working out all the time, so I caution you to be very aware of your body fat level. Make sure it is measured by a professional. Last year I was working out constantly and had about 6% body fat, it totally kiiled off my sexdrive until I gained more weight.

 

[HighLowJack]

What do you mean, lack of libido? You don’t have the urge to have sex, or romance? Do you play with your self a lot, or no?

You could be depressed from over doing the weights with out letting your body heal properly. Also like someone said a few posts ago, you may be dehydrated, or lacking in some vitamins.

Remember sleep is huge.

 

[Lysander]

Sorry if I did not make myself clear. When I say lack of libido, I mean that I rarely think about sex, rarely lust over women, and do not get really passionate or enthused about anything. I still look rather boyish at 18 and do not need to shave more than once a week. As a 14-16 year old, I was a typical sex-mad teenager, but after a nasty virus and depression, from which I am fully recovered, my libido has never really returned. I do not have any erectile dysfunctions or anything of the sort, and I have an extremely good diet, with plenty of food (around 3500-4000 calories a day) although my appetite is poor, and it is by discipline that I keep my eating high. And I drink water like a fish.

 

[Bungo Pony]

Originally posted by Lysander
Sorry if I did not make myself clear. When I say lack of libido, I mean that I rarely think about sex, rarely lust over women

If anything, this may prove to be a positive with you. You'll find yourself not so easily intimidated by a beautiful woman. It'll make your approaches and initiating dates much easier. All you gotta do is get some practice in.

 

[alboh]

Originally posted by Bungo Pony
If anything, this may prove to be a positive with you. You'll find yourself not so easily intimidated by a beautiful woman. It'll make your approaches and initiating dates much easier. All you gotta do is get some practice in.

I gotta respectfully disagree, Bungo. When my hormones are raging I find I'm a lot more crafty and quick on my feet in conversing with women, and just about anyone else. When I talk to women they can sense a passion and force behind my voice that turns them on. When I'm talking to anyone and make eye contact I can tell they find it really intense, and soak up every word I'm saying.

This is when I'm really built up, like I haven't jerked off in a week or so. By day three I'm just all-out horny but then by the end of the week that seems to be replaced by a boost in passion and testosterone.

This may be your problem, Lys. Have you tried abstaining for sex/jerking off for a while, or cutting back?

 

[Ragnar]

You might be gay. Do you lust after boys?

 

[Templeton]

Check out the health and fitness forum for some recent posts about testosterone and how to raise it if it does indeed interest you. I love this hormone! When my levels are low I sure as hell know it and when they are high I am the quintessential DJ (AFC inducer aside lol).

 

[Bungo Pony]

Originally posted by alboh
I gotta respectfully disagree, Bungo. When my hormones are raging I find I'm a lot more crafty and quick on my feet in conversing with women, and just about anyone else

I find myself to be the complete opposite. Basically, I'm just talking to some girl. She's gotta prove she's worth my d1ck before I pop a hardie. I just treat them like the average person, with no intention of fvcking them until they give me a reason. Some flirting from her end usually does the trick, and I become a raging sex-hungry monster.

 

[alboh]

To each his own.

 

[Lysander]

Alboh, thanks for the advice. I rarely "jerk off" as you put it, so I think it is probably more to do with diet. I am semi-vegeterian and quite a low bodyfat, which might have something to do with it.

Ragnar, I am definetely not gay. I still love looking at beautiful women, only from a aesthetic perspective, without any real lust.

 

[Charm]

Lysander,

It sounds like your kidneys might be low on fuel or not operating at full capacity. The problem with enthusiasm is finding something we are enthusiastic about. It's difficult to be enthusiastic about finding something to be enthusiastic about, if you get my drift.

By filling some of the voids in your life with things you are passionate about, you can curb the feelings of incompleteness and longing to a certain degree.

However, to increase sexual interest in women, you'll need to re-emerse yourself in those intimate situations so that the intimate feelings re-emerge. Right now I don't feel like ravaging a womans clothes off and ripping her painties off with my teeth, BUT, given the right set of circumstances, I very well might be, but it would only be during such an intimate encounter.

Get my drift? Please share your thoughts/insights/experiences.

 

[icepick]

Originally posted by Lysander
I am semi-vegeterian...

BINGO! Real men eat meat, and LOTS of it. It boosts up the testosterone. Nothing like sinking your teeth into a bloody carcas to get those anabolic hormones pumping!

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Grow another D!ck.

Grow two or three, if you can.


No, seriously though.

I think Icepick might be onto something. I'm not sure what the facts are behind eating meat and testosterone levels, but it makes some sense to me.

Every guy I know, who is a vegetarian, also has some less manly qualities about them. They aren't very aggressive people.

That might sound stereotypical, but for the people I know, that stereotype is true.
They don't act like the rest of us. Kinda girly guys.

Are they that way because they don't eat meat? Or do they not eat meat because they are, the way they are?

phew....... does that make any sense? lol

Gimme a big 'ol steak, any day over some cabbage, lettuce and fvckin' lemon rinds.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[Lysander]

Thanks for the advice, guys. I will work on finding more of a zest for life, like Charm suggested. I will also attend a lot more discos and various others places with scantily clad women to reignite my lust for women. I don't know about taking up red meat again, as I have strong ethical issues regarding eating red meat, but I will increase my consumption of chicken, turkey and eggs.

 

[Ofus]

Listen to the Don Juan Soundtrack 24/7!!!

I'm serious. It messes with your mind somehow!

 

[Dirk]

Tribulus

Try Tribulus which is a herb which increased test levels.


Do a search for Beyond a Century.






Dirk