Developing Consistancy and a system

[Gammergq]

This is the first time I am posting I am a convert from the Mystery method which to be fair wasn't for me. my biggest problem appart from my lack of confidence and ability to percrasinate and not take a risk is my lack of consistency some days I feel great I can be really charming and I am having fun other days I am introvert who is unrelaxed, miserable and lacks emotion and gets tongue tied in conversation and conversations just go flat. I need a system and a simple one when it comes to talking to women I would be greatfull for any suggestions.

 

[nevergiveup]

yeah man I have the same type of problem you are describing. What I am doing is finding out what I LOVE to do and to make sure to do those things. I like to workout and it makes you feel great so I make sure to do that every day and I make sure to play my guitar because i love doing that aswell. Its hard to be charming when ur not in a great mood or stressed.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Why not make one yourself based on your personal strengths?

 

[Gammergq]

Thanks thats a good idea.

 

[War Against Betaism]

If you want consistency in your game then you need to have a consistent day to day system. A good idea is when you wake up, listen to some relaxing every single day. Make sure that this song is the SAME song you use the day before, even if both are equally relaxing.

The relaxing part is supposed to make you relaxed (obviously). Listening to it consistently everyday will cause your subconscious mind to attach the emotion relaxation to that very song you're listening to. So before you enter a situation where you're going to game on a girl, if you have a listening device, listen to that song.