Infraction
Don Juan
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We are all different, there are no 2 people which are the same.
If you understand that you must understand that what works for me doesn't work for you.
The problem with "Speed Suduction" and "The Mystery Method" is that its base is pure technique that suits everyone. Because if it wasn't Mystery couldn't have do workshops. What i mean is that if me and someone else, that are different will use the same technique we aren't our selves, we are canned matreial.
Each and every one of us has his own strong points.
I am sure that if you try to think about anything you are good at that can be realted to social dynamics you will find at least one thing.
What i am saying, is that the whole dj bible gives you the borders, but you need to fill the square with your own style.
I have my own style of clothing, my own style of telling stories, my own style of talking to people, my own style of writing, my own style of kissing and etc' etc' etc'....
Now, there is nothing wrong with takeing advice you like and put it into your square of style because your judgement is taken its place and you know whats best for you. But if you mimic someone, you wont get anywhere.
I hope you understand what i am trying to say.
Develop your own style.
If you understand that you must understand that what works for me doesn't work for you.
The problem with "Speed Suduction" and "The Mystery Method" is that its base is pure technique that suits everyone. Because if it wasn't Mystery couldn't have do workshops. What i mean is that if me and someone else, that are different will use the same technique we aren't our selves, we are canned matreial.
Each and every one of us has his own strong points.
I am sure that if you try to think about anything you are good at that can be realted to social dynamics you will find at least one thing.
What i am saying, is that the whole dj bible gives you the borders, but you need to fill the square with your own style.
I have my own style of clothing, my own style of telling stories, my own style of talking to people, my own style of writing, my own style of kissing and etc' etc' etc'....
Now, there is nothing wrong with takeing advice you like and put it into your square of style because your judgement is taken its place and you know whats best for you. But if you mimic someone, you wont get anywhere.
I hope you understand what i am trying to say.
Develop your own style.