"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Develop an irresistable personality

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Chapter 3: How To Develop A Personality That Is
Irresistible To Women

In my experience, it's far better to ATTRACT a woman than to
CHASE a woman.
If a woman is ATTRACTED to you, half the game is over.
In sales, it's much easier to sell your product to someone who's
called you and said "Can you help me?" than to try to sell to people
who you've called cold.
Here's my premise: Women are attracted to men for certain
reasons and they go through a specific sequence internally when they
are attracted to a man - there is a system, a sequence, a code if you
will. And once you know what it is, you can develop a method to
create this sequence more often. You can use this fact that there is a
'genetic mating sequence' to help you.
Be Different In An Attractive Way
By studying marketing and sales, I've learned that humans are
attracted to things that are unique. They are also attracted to things
that are superior. So I have a phrase that I use: "Different in a
preferential way." In the mating game, it pays to be different in an
ATTRACTIVE way.
What I'm about to share with you is a group of ingredients. These
are the different ingredients that women are attracted to. It's up to
you to take what you have, and to use this list to augment your
personality in such a way that it becomes attractive to the type of
women that you're interested in. The key is to be different in an
attractive way.
But make sure that you're not too different! If you get too carried
away with this, you'll be outside of the realm of 'normal' and you will
wind up hurting yourself. So experiment and test to see what works
for you.


(Extract from Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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While DD is good, I think that his stuff is too beginner-ish for me because I have moved onto self-improvement stuff, but I question him.

Why is it so bad to move away from the "normal" and move into the "extrodinary."

That is what I did and it is amazing. Try to move to the "extrodinary." As Jack Canfield says in his success principles, "Become a class act" or better put a human benchmark on refinement and fun.

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I think he means don't be "wierd" or "creepy"?
 

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"I think he means don't be "wierd" or "creepy"?"

wow this is like a message from god
can I read any of the book online or do I have to buy it?

I WANT chapter 3!
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
"I think he means don't be "wierd" or "creepy"?"

wow this is like a message from god
can I read any of the book online or do I have to buy it?

I WANT chapter 3!
haha [end sarcasm]

comic_relief
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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comic_relief said:
While DD is good, I think that his stuff is too beginner-ish for me because I have moved onto self-improvement stuff, but I question him.

Why is it so bad to move away from the "normal" and move into the "extrodinary."

That is what I did and it is amazing. Try to move to the "extrodinary." As Jack Canfield says in his success principles, "Become a class act" or better put a human benchmark on refinement and fun.

comic_relief
I agree, David D's stuff is mostly for people who are new to this stuff. I found it useless downloading his programs because he simply repeats the core principles over and over again and doesn't really offer any techniques or helpful hints outside the obvious. However, his guests in his programs and Interviews with Dating Gurus are helpful.
 

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comic_relief said:
haha [end sarcasm]

comic_relief
ROFL...

This is so sad because I'm definitely an AFC/rAFC and I wasn't being sarcastic.

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
"I think he means don't be "wierd" or "creepy"?"

wow this is like a message from god
can I read any of the book online or do I have to buy it?

I WANT chapter 3!
Also ironically, this is weird and creepy to say... (since I was being straight)
 

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I downloaded DD's body language seminar and it was pretty good.

I agree though that attracting is way better than chasing. Even online, the only women I've ever had success with were the ones that hit me up first. If I email her first, I never get a response that leads to anything.

ps - whoops, just realized I accidently posted in the high school forum. My bad.
 

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can someone post a link for any of this stuff?
 

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enjoy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
ROFL...

This is so sad because I'm definitely an AFC/rAFC and I wasn't being sarcastic.



Also ironically, this is weird and creepy to say... (since I was being straight)
oh... my bad...

I suggest that you just go to the DJ bible and read it. It has the same information and it is free.

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Hey, I am only trying to help you guys out :l

Also I know of ways of getting all these kinds of things, but mentioning them on this forum is against the rules. Hit me up on MSN and I will see what I can do for you :)
 

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Also I think DD is NOT JUST for beginners, as he tends to put stuff plain and simple, whilst some PUAs are really confusing. Have you ever read Mystery's book? Who can honestly say they understood that the first time through? Double Your Dating is very plain and simple to understand.
 

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The bible better have "how not to be weird or creepy in it"... I feel weird and creepy just asking this... very badddddd!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's pretty easy to say stand out. How do you stand out? Obviously have good looks, great body, play a spot, win homecoming king, get on the news, steal the KFC guy and chain the principal's doors locked.


Oh right... majority of those you can't achieve instantly, unless you want to risk expulsion and talking with the cops. I think we all know how to do it, but we're blessed with inferior genes and impatience/lazy minds not to work out and dedicate to the diet.
 

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lol fine I guess none of you guys like DD's stuff, I will stop posting.
 

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Dude I want to like DDs stuff, but I don't know where to start..
 

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What do you mean?
 

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I don't know where any material is lol.. I'm looking for personality enhancement, and mostly how not to be weird and creepy.. because many many people have called me weird or creepy..

Just looking for material to make myself better mentally so I know what would work in any random situation and what wouldn't work, what I shouldn't do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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