Embarrassingly, late 20's. I had a 10 year LTR that I luckily ended because she wanted to force marriage. As such, I have VERY little experience in dating in general. It was like an old married couple. I was used to spending all our free time together and smothered the recent relationship because that was normal to me. I didn't stop to think about the independence most people develop as they pass through their 20s. I needed way too much and freaked her out.TheCWord said:How old are you, OP?
Also, I do want to stop caring so much. I have this skewed idea of loyalty that isn't realistic outside of what I came of age with. It's ridiculous and not healthy. I should have kept my options open and focused on myself, not her.