This is a continuation of the previous post.
It is important to note that accomplishing our goals and removing bad habits will increase our self-confidence. As a result of our success we will naturally improve our body language. We will make and retain eye contact with women. We will feel comfortable touching women. We will be relaxed and this will be reflected in our voice. Improvement (means) leads to subconsciously emitting attractive non-verbal signals (ends).
This is what we want. I want you to go out and not think about how taking up alpha male amounts of space, how many seconds you look into a girls eyes, or when can I touch her.
Invest your time improving yourself and practicing the proper non-verbals. Once this is internalized you will have much more success with the actual seduction process. It is hard to strategize when you are stuck thinking about the fundamentals. You can’t be an accountant if you struggle with your fractions.
Even though this is true it is a good idea to brush up on our skills. Here is a quick list I go over every once in a while.
Non-Verbal Refresher course:
Body Language: Stand and sit strait. I like to try to increase my width by moving my shoulders as far away as possible from each other. Walk with your chin up.
There are many resources available should you need more then that.
Eye Contact:
Social Eye Contact: Being able to hold eye contact with a female without awkwardly darting your eyes to the side or looking downwards. This is submissive behavior, which we avoid.
Don’t look at a girl’s chest while talking to her! (Until later)…
Sexual Eye Contact: Looking at a girl while thinking of the terrible things you are going to do to her later… This is so natural you should not need to practice it.
Kino i.e. touching: Kino is a way to let a girl know you are a physical sexual being and you are not just an emotional tampon there to listen to her feelings.
If you are afraid of touching girls, then you need some practice. Go out there and make it happen.
You should work this in within the first few minutes of a conversation. Some places I frequently Kino girls are when I first see them… with hugs, handshakes turned into twirls, fist pounds etc.
When leaving a room I like to guide girls by placing my hand on their back and giving them a subtle push that lets them know there are going to end up in my bed sooner or later.
Tonality: Speak Clearly, Speak slowly, and speak deliberately. Speak from your diaphragm. This is slightly unnatural and I could stand some improvement in this area.
Up next: The seduction process part one: creating interest.
-Nefarious
It is important to note that accomplishing our goals and removing bad habits will increase our self-confidence. As a result of our success we will naturally improve our body language. We will make and retain eye contact with women. We will feel comfortable touching women. We will be relaxed and this will be reflected in our voice. Improvement (means) leads to subconsciously emitting attractive non-verbal signals (ends).
This is what we want. I want you to go out and not think about how taking up alpha male amounts of space, how many seconds you look into a girls eyes, or when can I touch her.
Invest your time improving yourself and practicing the proper non-verbals. Once this is internalized you will have much more success with the actual seduction process. It is hard to strategize when you are stuck thinking about the fundamentals. You can’t be an accountant if you struggle with your fractions.
Even though this is true it is a good idea to brush up on our skills. Here is a quick list I go over every once in a while.
Non-Verbal Refresher course:
Body Language: Stand and sit strait. I like to try to increase my width by moving my shoulders as far away as possible from each other. Walk with your chin up.
There are many resources available should you need more then that.
Eye Contact:
Social Eye Contact: Being able to hold eye contact with a female without awkwardly darting your eyes to the side or looking downwards. This is submissive behavior, which we avoid.
Don’t look at a girl’s chest while talking to her! (Until later)…
Sexual Eye Contact: Looking at a girl while thinking of the terrible things you are going to do to her later… This is so natural you should not need to practice it.
Kino i.e. touching: Kino is a way to let a girl know you are a physical sexual being and you are not just an emotional tampon there to listen to her feelings.
If you are afraid of touching girls, then you need some practice. Go out there and make it happen.
You should work this in within the first few minutes of a conversation. Some places I frequently Kino girls are when I first see them… with hugs, handshakes turned into twirls, fist pounds etc.
When leaving a room I like to guide girls by placing my hand on their back and giving them a subtle push that lets them know there are going to end up in my bed sooner or later.
Tonality: Speak Clearly, Speak slowly, and speak deliberately. Speak from your diaphragm. This is slightly unnatural and I could stand some improvement in this area.
Up next: The seduction process part one: creating interest.
-Nefarious