"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Detroit

Lexington

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So yeah I just did a thread about Montreal, but now I have another city question for those of you from Detroit.

I've been very spoiled over the past year. I've lived in Dallas and Chicago. Also, I got to visit London and Amsterdam. I'll be visiting Montreal and then Toronto too. After that though, I gotta pack up my stuff and move to Detroit. I'll be living there for the next 3-6 months.

Is it as bad as the horror stories I keep hearing about it? Chicago has been an absolute babe bonanza. The Dallas/Ft. Worth area was pretty sweet too. I hear that besides being rundown and crime-ridden, Detroit is also pretty terrible in the babe department :cry:

I will be really busy with work, but I will get some time to chill. What's the low down on the places to hit up? Are there quality women to be found?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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drak_ool

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You have your fair share of hot chicks in the Metro Detroit area. The problem when comparing it to other places like Chicago and Toronto is that there is no huge downtown area to go to. Downtown Detroit itself is a pretty scary place. There are some nice clubs, but it's not like in other cities where you stroll around from bar to club and back and forth. Here you really need to be in the know about where the party's at. But if you do know, there's something going on from monday to sunday, it's just that the venues are a lot more spread out than in other cities.

The best thing about this area is if you have a boat (or a friend who has one). Pple go out on Lake St Claire every weekend, pull all the boats together (from 50 to hundreds on a good day) and a huge party ensues. It's like going on spring break every weekend. Trust me, I've seen worst things in terms of slutty behavior here than I did in Florida over spring break!

I'll be here till the end of july, feel free to PM me when you move into the area if you want some tips on the local nightlife.
 

War Against Betaism

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You're better off heading over across to Windsor. There are a lot of bars, downtown can get pretty crackin' sometimes and from what my friend told me a long time ago, it has the most strip clubs per capita in all of North America.
 
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