Determinating high il vs. low IL

[European-DJ]

Hi fellow DJ's, some time since last question.

I have been seeing this girl 'regularly' for the last month or so, and simply cannot determinate her level of interest.

When she is around my 'hood', she will be calling me and arranging meetups, when I meet her at the clubs she will grab me
And kiss me. She Answer my texting and calls...

But the red flags are as follows:
- we went to the Lake, and she had an assumption that her ex would be there, so i was that if we met him, we should agere to tell him that we was nothing more than Friends.
Another annoying this is, that she is to manipulative by her friends, so I tend to get ****blocked by the end of a clubbing session!

No question that I am starting to cath feelings... The question is, should I protect my heart, or should I go for her despite the red flags?

 

[Subology]

It seems to me, she see's whatever you two have as pretty casual. If you don't see it the same way, you may get hurt.

 

[youngmack]

Withdraw immediately...its over you caught feelings. Im petty sure she dosent feel the same way you do. Go mess with other girls before you catch oneitis and get hurt or ****ed over.

 

[Desdinova]

I have been seeing this girl 'regularly' for the last month or so, and simply cannot determinate her level of interest.

The easiest way to find out is to ask her out on a date. If she agrees, her IL is high enough to go out with you.

This isn't fvcking rocket science, people.

 

[Krueg]

In my opinion, don't analyze a girl's interest level. It doesn't matter.

All that matters is what YOU think. If you like her, just go for it. Don't try to figure out if she likes you; doing so will only make you more tentative about pursuing her.

Just go for it and let the chips fall where they may. You'll know soon enough.

Espi is right. Women hide their true feelings.

Desdinova also hit another nail on the head..

 

[Zerro]

- we went to the Lake, and she had an assumption that her ex would be there, so i was that if we met him, we should agere to tell him that we was nothing more than Friends.

That's a pretty damn big red flag.

 

[youngmack]

That's a pretty damn big red flag.

Exactly what i was saying.....I dont understand why would you want to pursue someone like this...Its a no brainer.Maybe if you didnt catch feelings for her and you just wanted to beat the poons up then yeah..but i dont think you should emotionally invest yourself in someone who is an attention wh0re like this and from the looks of it.. is just bored and stringing you along/gaming you.

 

[nismo-4]

:yawn: Oh my! Judge nismo cringed reading this.

The best way to gauge a woman's IL is to just go for it. If she's interested, she'll make it known.

If you catch feelings, you're gonna get hurt. Does she care? F**k no!

If you analyze too much, you'll reject YOURSELF.

Never catch feelings for a woman. :nono: That's a great way to get strung along, teased, and friendzoned.

AFAIC, there's no good in this that is for you.

You are guilty of catching feelings. That comes with a trip to C0ckteasefield, Vermont. You will also be flown to Dry Vaginas, Arizona.

Go spin more plates and stop worrying about this girl. Court's orders.

Case closed. Back to rest. :yawn:

 

[European-DJ]

Thanks for the replies guys.

Sometimes one is blinded by "love" (Feelings)... And then you start overanalysing, and start seeing things no one else sees...

Always great with some external advice!