"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Detachment Theory

WoodWorks

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Just a quick thought provoking topic related to the hotly debated circle jerk "Attachment Theory" thread discussed to nauseam recently by numerous forum frequents attached to posting incessantly on so suave like their lives depended upon it.

What do we think of Detachment Theory? As in posters being permanently detached from reality? Does dog poop get more human contact than these mental masturdebating shut-ins?

What causes those who BeDivorced from reality to suffer from being detached to planet earth unlike the rest of us? A long history of compartmentalized early childhood trauma and or possible sexual abuse?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Id like to have a good detachment theory when i break all those ladies heart!!
 
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