You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes, this is where you force her to initiate, or no date. The day of the date she texts first, always. She should say something like "How should I do my hair?" or "What should I wear?"
That's not true at all. I have a chick in the rotation that I see every ~5-7 weeks. She's been popping in and out since July.
Correct. No text is necessary unless she texts you.
Usually it's more like "are we still on?!?"
Not if you outwardly check to see if you got attention.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The important part is the dates. Text as little as possible to get dates. In general, you can only raise interest level in person.
I need my phone for work. So it's not possible. But I've been thinking of getting a 2nd phone so I can try. I once went 3 months recently without a text or data plan. It was great. I spent less time being distracted by social crap and more time with developing myself in multiple ways.
