Detached Attitude is the Way to Go

[om1xr]

What's up DJs,

here we are again trying to improve in every aspect in our life. It's been a while

ago when i figured this out but i wasn't sure about it till i experienced it more

and more , when you don't give a fvck about the situations you are in and keep

a detached attitude in dealing with those situations (women, works, goals,

interests , etc..) and by detached i mean detach your unnecessary

emotions, detach your ego (don't give a fvck about what others may think of

you bad or good you are the only one that make a big deal or no deal at all of

it) , detach past (past experiences , past emotions, past pains, etc... ) and

detach future and just focus your attention on the moment and on the object

of your interest .

It's really that simple if you want to be what you want to be, because when

you detach all what i'd mentioned above there will be no fears or

distractions or any hesitations to take action and take what you want like

a real MAN.

 

[spang]

agreed. its just a hard thing to put into practice

 

[om1xr]

agreed. its just a hard thing to put into practice

No doubt about that but this is not some technique or some trick but this is a state of mind you have to develop to become detached from everything that does not serve you anyway. It takes time to make this mindset your genuine state of mind and you may nor reach that 100% detached attitude but when you develop it even in a small way in your daily life you are going to see results every time.
Good luck.

 

[PlayHer Man]

I agree OP. But while you detach emotionally you should be engaged mentally.

Your mind needs to be sharp and aware of past experiences (learning) the present situation (opportunity) and the possible outcomes (end goal).. but your emotions need to be as detached as possible.

Its a type of stoicism. Similar to how animals operate only with a stronger sense of awareness. Its easier said than done though. But with practice and experience you learn that the majority of situations in life are not worth emotional energy.