Desperation? WTF

[verysuave]

i have this phobia of being known as a "desperate" guy. So, sometimes when Im about to approach someome, i feell im being desperate myself because im "chasing" them. It just causes a dilemna in my head because, if i chase women then i would come off as a desperate guy. And if i dont chase I wouldn't come off as desperate but, they wouldnt think im not interested in them.

WHAAAT THE Fvck.. its like loop

saying says,
"women get turned off by desperate guys or guys who chase them."

Is it just me who feels this way sometimes?

 

[drummer]

Don't think. And hitting on someone isn't desperate... proposing is.
Just think like you don't need them, cause you dont, you WANT them.

 

[librito]

the trick is to aproach women without worrying too much about the outcome because if you do worry a lot about the outcome then shell notice your desperation.... aproaching women must be taken as a game/hobby. you just do it becuase you like doing it and not because you want to win all the time.