"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desperation? WTF

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verysuave

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i have this phobia of being known as a "desperate" guy. So, sometimes when Im about to approach someome, i feell im being desperate myself because im "chasing" them. It just causes a dilemna in my head because, if i chase women then i would come off as a desperate guy. And if i dont chase I wouldn't come off as desperate but, they wouldnt think im not interested in them.

WHAAAT THE Fvck.. its like loop

saying says,
"women get turned off by desperate guys or guys who chase them."

Is it just me who feels this way sometimes?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't think. And hitting on someone isn't desperate... proposing is.
Just think like you don't need them, cause you dont, you WANT them.
 
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the trick is to aproach women without worrying too much about the outcome because if you do worry a lot about the outcome then shell notice your desperation.... aproaching women must be taken as a game/hobby. you just do it becuase you like doing it and not because you want to win all the time.
 
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