desperation..pook!

[wvpimp00]

I was reading pook's post on Desperation and getting the woman to put us on a pedistal..

Sounds easy huh? Then how do you do it? How do you get the woman to chase you and make you the prize?
Most women like to think that its the guys responsibility to call or come see them...

Please explain this.. i dont understand...

 

[legolas]

It is a question of what's going on in your head. If you're making assumptions on what women are thinking, you're either a good mind reader, or you can imagine pretty well. Even if women did think that it was a man's responsibility to do those things, unless you knew for sure, you don't HAVE to do it.

It is not about who's the prize to be won, it is about you being you and not pretending to be someone you're not (meaning the guy that women want)

When you're you, and you put your needs and desires in front of you tend to automatically filter out the women who just want to suck you dry of your money, time, and energy.

 

[Helios]

Man on the pedestal

I personally would just say impress me to some girl everyone was placing on a pedestal. Make me believe it's worth my time to consider you.

Like Pook said you shouldn't think "Does she like me?", think "Should I like HER!".

 

[wvpimp00]

ook.. I just read that, and yeah I dont understand...

But I do understand when you said: should I like her?
and that is a very good question to ask yourself.. but how will this put you on a pedestal with the ladies? does it change your mind set? or what? what do you all think???

 

[squirrels]

You don't need to desire to be desired.
To be desired, you have to be desirable.

 

[phloyd]

It's really quite simple. What do you want to acompish in life? What are your goals, dreams etc. Do you have any? How hard are you willing to work to achieve them?

I'm not talking about getting chicks, I'm talking about being the best man you can be. When you focus on that, a natural side effect is women.