Only this week have I truly grasped the true meaning of the much famed post 'kill that desperation.'
Desperation is defined a state of despair, which leads to rash or extreme behaviour.
Desperation is not exclusive to dating, it applies to all aspects of life. It is critical to eliminate this from your life completely, desperation in any form is comparable to a cancer spreading throughout your body. It warps your sense of self and causes you to become a person that you are not.
There is a distinct difference between wanting something and being desperate for it.
The key to eliminating desperation is realising that there are very few actual needs in life, most things are wants.
Anything aside from food, shelter & water is a want, a want that you can do something about.
When Pook talks about being the great catch, he is talking about realising that women are not a necessity in your life, the world will not end if the girl you are obsessing over shoots you down. In your world, YOU are the only constant.
You may elimate desperation from your love life, but that is not enough. Are you desperate for success in the business world? Are you desperate to have a large circle of friends?
You need to rid that desperation from your life. It is a state of mind and changing how you think.
It is accepting that Don Juans are not made of their dollars or who they hang with but who they truly are.
The moment you aren't willing to walk away from anything in life is the moment you leave yourself vulnerable.
Not being desperate isn't to be confused with abandoning your dreams.
I want to be run successful business's, but I can live without acheiving this.
I want a good relationship, but I can live happily being single.
Not being dependent on having what I class as a perfect life truly enables me to explore what I want.
To be desperate is to sell your soul to the devil!
A lot of posters problems would evaporate if they could truly remove desperation from their lives!
Desperation is defined a state of despair, which leads to rash or extreme behaviour.
Desperation is not exclusive to dating, it applies to all aspects of life. It is critical to eliminate this from your life completely, desperation in any form is comparable to a cancer spreading throughout your body. It warps your sense of self and causes you to become a person that you are not.
There is a distinct difference between wanting something and being desperate for it.
The key to eliminating desperation is realising that there are very few actual needs in life, most things are wants.
Anything aside from food, shelter & water is a want, a want that you can do something about.
When Pook talks about being the great catch, he is talking about realising that women are not a necessity in your life, the world will not end if the girl you are obsessing over shoots you down. In your world, YOU are the only constant.
You may elimate desperation from your love life, but that is not enough. Are you desperate for success in the business world? Are you desperate to have a large circle of friends?
You need to rid that desperation from your life. It is a state of mind and changing how you think.
It is accepting that Don Juans are not made of their dollars or who they hang with but who they truly are.
The moment you aren't willing to walk away from anything in life is the moment you leave yourself vulnerable.
Not being desperate isn't to be confused with abandoning your dreams.
I want to be run successful business's, but I can live without acheiving this.
I want a good relationship, but I can live happily being single.
Not being dependent on having what I class as a perfect life truly enables me to explore what I want.
To be desperate is to sell your soul to the devil!
A lot of posters problems would evaporate if they could truly remove desperation from their lives!
