"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desperate for Change

The Hybrid

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Hi,
A little bit about me, im a 29 year old man who has never had luck with any women, dont think its a looks thing as I do look reasonably okay and I have lots of friends and women do get on with me in a friends way but all my life I have had to suffer with rumours about my sexuality being spread about me and its got to the stage now where ive had enough and things need to change.
Ive heard about a 8 week program to follow on here thinking of doing it as maybe it is the last resort before accepting my fate, Hopefully Ill be able to turn my life around as I feel its the only thing missing out of my life at the moment and work on what i am doing wrong and hopefully have a good chat to you guys on here :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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betheman

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Do you approach women? do you make it clear what your after? I suspect you play it too friendly, almost assexual, scared to make a move sexually?
 

The Hybrid

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betheman said:
Do you approach women? do you make it clear what your after? I suspect you play it too friendly, almost assexual, scared to make a move sexually?

That could be the case mate, ive never been good with approaching and despite I do get positive comments on the way I look the rare times women have found out ive been interested they always run a mile, If I had more luck then Id probably get more confidence to approach, thats why im thinking of trying one of those bootcamp things online to see if that can build my confidence up
 
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