"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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do you ever want to tell others about the things you are doing, or learning? once in a while i get the urge to show off...how do i fight this urge?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if you really are doing and learning a lot, then your friends should be coming up to you asking how you're doing it. if you feel the need to brag about it, then i doubt you're as good as you can be.
 
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of course im not as good as i can be, but once in a while, i get the urge to go out and display my strengths
 
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displaying them is GOOD. bragging about them just brings down your value. true DJs are the ones who think nothing of what they do; it's a lifestyle, not a hobby.
 
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