"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Describe the Cutie you Saw Today and Where.

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After the firealarm at my office, I went over to the nearby pizza shop to grab a diet coke. And BEHOLD!!!!

In front of me was my '10' with....her bf. (I'd wished it was her brother, but if it was me, I'd have been fondling her then, too).

She was probably 19/20, maybe even just 18.
C - cups.
Jean shorts that hugged just to her butt.
Pink Sandals.
A Pink bra strap sticking out.
Tan skin.
Brunette Hair.
Brown eyes.
Perfect butt.
Gorgeous legs.
Cute face.

I was in awe.
It's moments when I see a girl like that when I'm like..."How could I ever committ to 1 woman knowing girls like this exist that I could also flavor and savor?"

My gf is very similar to the aforementioned hottie, so I'm sure I'd become 'restless', but still. WoW.

And the dude that had him?

Wearing a long white tee shirt, shorts, and sandals. Looked, maybe 20, possibly 21. Appeared as if he was from the area. Short hair. I've seen better looking dudes with worse looking chicks. She appeared to be cute and affectionate. Who knows, maybe she's a headcase?

Still. WoW. I bump into about 1 girl every 2 days who knocks me over and has me like 'Woah, I can't be Mr Super Committed until this URGE is gone.' It's something I've always had. Not sure what it is. If it's natural, it sucks. If it's not, then I need to figure it out. Lol.

Post your super cutie of the day. I'm curious to see how often we bump into a girl who we define as "our 10."


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't see what's wrong in recognizing the beauty in an other woman when you're in a commited relationship.
You're a mature person, you know you already have a gorgeous woman that you love.
There's no need to worry about checking out other hot women if you happen to come across them. Just make sure you're only checking them out and that's it.
Good for your testosterone and your girl can be grateful you do it because you're going to release that builded up masculine energy on her ;)
 

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LoL... I see the perfect cutie maybe once a year. Guess my area just s*cks.
 
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