"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Depression/OCD

adpreston1988

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Do you think it's a good idea to be in this kind of forum even if one has been suffering from depression? or should I leave for a while and come back when I'm happy w/ myself? I was in denial before about being depressed and worked hard to become more of a Don Juan, but these past couple of months I have gotten down on myself and am not even really motivated anymore to become a Don Juan. So I guess I pretty much already answered my own question.

But does anyone have any advice for me on what to do next? I've already scheduled an appointment w/ my school's therapist next week to talk out my issues. But I just feel completely lost in the world now and don't have much motivation to do anything. I'm not really sure what I want in life anymore and what to do in my spare time. I've also developed some mild OCD. So any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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doctoroxygen

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I'd recommend securing a good relationship with a therapist before worrying about this site. Good luck with the depression, I know how hard that can be.
 
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