"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Depression linked to the Doors

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After watching The Doors by Oliver Stone for the 100th time, I've just fallen into something like depression. I can't stand not being able to sing or to be an arting. I'd want my life to be exactly like Jim's, or at least I'd like to have been able to know him. I don't know exactly what it is. I've always been infatuated with Jim Morrison and I've read his bio 10 times. But this time it's something serious, during all the movie I've seen him like Jesus Christ (I'm a practicing Catholic and I go to Church every Sunday), like a semi-God.

Any ideas about what this depression is?
How can I get rid of this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It seems like everyone goes through a Jim Morrison phase. How old are you?

I myself used to think Jim Morrison was cool. Now however I think he sucked. The Doors are still a good band, but Morrison was a pretentious douche.

I feel sorry for anyone who wishes to emulate Morrison's self-destructive behavior.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Unregistered said:
It seems like everyone goes through a Jim Morrison phase. How old are you?

I myself used to think Jim Morrison was cool. Now however I think he sucked. The Doors are still a good band, but Morrison was a pretentious douche.

I feel sorry for anyone who wishes to emulate Morrison's self-destructive behavior.
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I'm 19, but I've been fascinated by him since I was 17. However, yesterday, after watching the movie for the n-th time, I wanted to be him, I don't know why
 
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