Depressing reddit post - what advice can be given to the masses of men in this situation?

[BaronOfHair]

The only effort women have to do is to respond:

A fair amount of effort is required to get and maintain a body this scrumptious https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...about-glenn-powell.281280/page-3#post-3116467

I'm starting to wonder if you, GoodMan, and corrector are all the same person. All three of you have an admittedly remarkable capacity for churning out shallow rationalizations the way Andy Huggins

dishes out riotous one-liners

 

[BaronOfHair]

Plenty of guys already have your belief about average women, even in bars and other places, where they'll be less picky and more down to earth and the hot ones are completely unobtainable

"Unobtainable" in this case being defined as:

"I approached one-two gals who were Pre-Woke SI material in an garrishly overpriced nightclub on a Friday night, where the trap house muzak blaring out of the speakers barely let's you hear YOURSELF think... They didn't drop trow and do me right there even though this is how it happens in Connery and Moore-era Bond flicks, therfore I concluded that the dating market in modern day America is more horrendous than Mogadishu during the early 90s, and remain glued to that conclusion"

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

"Unobtainable" in this case being defined as:

"I approached one-two gals who were Pre-Woke SI material in an garrishly overpriced nightclub on a Friday night, where the trap house muzak blaring out of the speakers barely let's you hear YOURSELF think... They didn't drop trow and do me right there even though this is how it happens in Connery and Moore-era Bond flicks, therfore I concluded that the dating market in modern day America is more horrendous than Mogadishu during the early 90s, and remain glued to that conclusion"

Nope, not approached a woman in person since 2012.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Nope, not approached a woman in person since 2012.

Keep on as you have. You'll be modern dating and mating's answer to The DEA https://www.salon.com/2023/07/09/th...ter-are-deadlier-and-more-abundant-than-ever/

Not even an effectiveness rate of less than 1% will prompt either of you to investigate and deconstruct your beliefs

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Keep on as you have. You'll be modern dating and mating's answer to The DEA https://www.salon.com/2023/07/09/th...ter-are-deadlier-and-more-abundant-than-ever/

Not even an effectiveness rate of less than 1% will prompt either of you to investigate and deconstruct your beliefs

Why is it necessarily an issue?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Why is it necessarily an issue?

It's a tragedy for you, and inconsequential for the rest of us

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

It's a tragedy for you, and inconsequential for the rest of us

It isn't a tragedy for me. I've never needed to approach.

 

[Solomon]

"I'm smiling at a beautiful apple with a totally rotten core."
And then widen your smile and wait for her response, which will be either amused or angry.
Regardless of her response, you can say, "Are you going to prove me wrong?"

This is some A+ Game I can see Amsterdam has that wit, man sir if you're free in 2025/2026 when I come to Amsterdam I gotta buy you a couple pints!

Forget about apps its a cess pit of bad behaviour and terrible dating practices

You grow a pair of balls and go talk to any 5/6/7 in bar anywhere in the world and the outcome will be a lot different

Apps are just skewed versions of reality

This is the main issue to many guys are just dealing with women on swipe apps on here. IMO at 40 I don't care for the club/bar but If I was younger I would still do that(I retired at 37). I think to answer @CheekyMonkey101 you're better of living a lifestyle and having a social circle. Easier said than done trust me I know as I recently had a falling out with mine. However, I will say this, if you work on yourself, learn social mastery, improve your living situation. It makes meeting women easier. I can tell you that I have met/dated far hotter women in social circle game than on apps where those women wouldn't have given me a chance.

Once again I know it's easier said than done but average guys do it all day every day and you actually have a higher success rate doing that than meeting women on apps who you barley attracted to if at all

 

[BaronOfHair]

I've never needed to approach.

You're a 21st Century Svengali then. Impressive

 

[CornbreadFed]

Tell them to travel overseas. Western women are ruined by feminism and the state encourages it.

That shvt exists overseas unless you are travelling to remote places like Tibet.

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

You're a 21st Century Svengali then. Impressive

All I'm saying is that not all men need to approach.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Plenty of guys already have your belief about average women, even in bars and other places, where they'll be less picky and more down to earth and the hot ones are completely unobtainable. It isn't just on the apps.

This attitude is an automatic woman repellent so you've already lost before you even begin

 

[Manure Spherian]

I have another recent post that goes into how men are more religious than women these days.

They are, but churches are gynocracies now.

 

[MatureDJ]

Could be worse. My stripclubcel friend got un-approaced at a strip club.

It's OVER for Can'tEvenGetStrippersToChatCels.