depressed. god why do i let myself slip like this.

[dannowillbookem]

when being pissed kinda creeps up on me it gets to me and i get all ****ty like right now.

anyone have any quicktips for raising ur "i dont care" standards? my friends were being *******s and insulting me with everything i did. god what ****ers.

 

[Zod]

shave your friends eyebrows off!

 

[Inquire]

say "f_ck them b_tches, I'm (ur full name)"

 

[08aisaac]

It happens to the best of us. Well I am never usually depressed, except for one time I was browsing a forum that all my old friends made. Well I thought they were friends, but all they do is trash me. The creator of the forum even trashed me, and since he was kind of the person that I looked up to, I like cryed and everything.

And for some reason, when I went to church the other day, I was the same way. I kept telling myself in my head that I was going to die, and that I was going to hell but I didn't care. Umm but you can't be happy 24/7. Since school started, and I don't know that many people, it kind of sucks. But it will get better.

Well I think I have some traumatic issues from my childhood, but that's a totally different story.

 

[i am me]

you dont have to "say" anything to yourself because it might feel artificial (if you know wut i mean...). just genuinely try to brush it off and go on. your friends were probably just joking around (which is okay) or they are not really your friends. Decide which is true. A lot of guys just like to f**k around with their friends because we're supposed to be tough

 

[familyguyfan]

What did you do that they're making fun of you for? Your post made it sound like you did something.



Here's a comeback that works to ANY insult:

Ah! That was a low blow, but I guess you're used to giving those, huh.

 

[Roly]

See one of the reasons why we get so freaking sad, depress, angry and bitter is of this thing called the - " care factor". We care too damn much of what people thinks of us and we're always looking for their freaking validation. The truth of the matter is people, you can't please everyone, you can only please yourself. Never, Ever!! rely on other people's praises and compliments to boost your freaking self esteem, be self reliant, and rely on yourself.It's really stupid if you're putting other people's opinions of you first, instead of your own. The next time someone insults or attacks you, just let it go and don't care, why? because you dont really care. You love yourself, and that's all that matters.

Freeing yourself from self validation and the need to please or care about what other people think is one step toward innerpeace.

 

[08aisaac]

^^^ Dude, it's life. People get depressed because they are human. It's good to cry everynow and then. Well people care. Can't really be helped. I mean it can be reduced, but not totally.

 

[dannowillbookem]

Originally posted by familyguyfan
What did you do that they're making fun of you for? Your post made it sound like you did something.



Here's a comeback that works to ANY insult:

Ah! That was a low blow, but I guess you're used to giving those, huh.

hitting on chicks...any time i tried to lay any kino they immediately shot me down and from there i was the butt of jokes.

 

[Bling]

Find some true friends, and tell everyone else to **** off. There's plenty of kids out there to be your friend... just like there's plenty of girls out there to be your butty call.

 

[i am me]

/\yea your friends are either jerks or they play around too much. You don't necessarily have to find new friends but find some way to stop the c0ck block

 

[dannowillbookem]

new plan: next time they tell me to come over or something, i'll say no.

when they ask why, i'll say they're being asses and i have better things to do.


i think that'll do the trick, and if it doesnt...new friends.

 

[Super FLY Guy]

To me it sounds like your friends are just jelious of you hitting on the ladies. If I were you I would just ignore them or make a really funny comeback to some of their comments.

 

[penkitten]

dude your friends are ****blockers plain and simple
you work the girls
then they ****block you
and feed off what they can
jealous ba stards

 

[S-lemond]

lol, ur prob not even mad nemore

 

[frank17]

Hi to all,
Well this post has not much to do with friends but with a damn girl... I know all of you are going to think I'm a wuss just because I'm getting depressed by a girl. Well this is the story I liked this chick at work for the longest time.. I was always kissing her ass.. yea kisssing ass! ( big mistake) and the chick was at one point getting into me and sh*t.. but she would say that it was hard for her to trust guys and that she didn't have time. Well she told me " just give me time and from them we'll see what happens" and guess what I did... wait like a f*cking dumbass. Well time passed and a kid started working at the same place that we do.. one week and she was so into the guy.. that now they are going out. No I'm not "crying" that she is going out with someone else... I can careless about that.. but you know the thing is that it makes me feel stupid for doing all I did for nothing... in the end it didn't even matter. Well and then she made like a huge deal out of it... and went to talk to 2 of who I thought were my friends. So them this 2 "friends" came to me and started asking me stuff about her and that why I was pissed... so many questions and comments that they got me to talk. And I said all I wanted to say.. and then guess what the two b*tches went and told everything I said to the chick.. telling her that I was talking sh*t behind her back and stuff. Whatever I dodn't even know what to do now... I'm quitting my job because I dodn't feel like bieng into the same sh*t any more. And then I dodn't know if I should talk to the backstabers or not... what should I do? and what should I do to feel any better?
Frank

 

[dannowillbookem]

Originally posted by frank17
Hi to all,
Well this post has not much to do with friends but with a damn girl... I know all of you are going to think I'm a wuss just because I'm getting depressed by a girl. Well this is the story I liked this chick at work for the longest time.. I was always kissing her ass.. yea kisssing ass! ( big mistake) and the chick was at one point getting into me and sh*t.. but she would say that it was hard for her to trust guys and that she didn't have time. Well she told me " just give me time and from them we'll see what happens" and guess what I did... wait like a f*cking dumbass. Well time passed and a kid started working at the same place that we do.. one week and she was so into the guy.. that now they are going out. No I'm not "crying" that she is going out with someone else... I can careless about that.. but you know the thing is that it makes me feel stupid for doing all I did for nothing... in the end it didn't even matter. Well and then she made like a huge deal out of it... and went to talk to 2 of who I thought were my friends. So them this 2 "friends" came to me and started asking me stuff about her and that why I was pissed... so many questions and comments that they got me to talk. And I said all I wanted to say.. and then guess what the two b*tches went and told everything I said to the chick.. telling her that I was talking sh*t behind her back and stuff. Whatever I dodn't even know what to do now... I'm quitting my job because I dodn't feel like bieng into the same sh*t any more. And then I dodn't know if I should talk to the backstabers or not... what should I do? and what should I do to feel any better?
Frank

this is my sob story thread! make ur own yo!

but just next her.

k back to me! haha

 

[frank17]

Ofcourse I next her ass dude..
Let me tell you the most f*cked up sh*t she told me " I dodn't have time but atleast he doesn't invite himself wherever I go"... stupid b*tch.
What should I do with the other 2 ho*s? forget about them or talk to them>?

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

frank17, you told two girls your feelings about another girl that they knew...what did you expect them to do? Girls like drama and sh1t, it's a fact of life. I'd say you should keep the other 2 around though.