"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Depressed..broken hearted.. Please HELP me

MetalFortress

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I did the same thing and went through the same thing, 3 years ago. Dude, you're best off forgetting she even exists. Don't answer her calls or call her ,don't text her, don't IM her, don't myspace or email her, anything. Let her go off and date her ex.

She ain't a good girl and you'll figure this out as you date and get to know more girls in real life. You'll wonder why you ever bothered with the LDR thing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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snowdog

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Yea, you need to get drunk and have some fun. Break some bottles, piss on some cars and your shoes, vomit over your buddies, fight a nigga or two, get arrested...
 
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