"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deodarant stains

DJinTraining06

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Do u guys get yellow stains on the armpits of ur white t-shirts? I use speed stick gel cuz the powder deodaranta are always too flakey and messy, especially with all the underarm hair. My white t-shirts all get these nasty yellow stains on the armpit area. Bleach doesnt seem to work, it still looks weird even tho the yellow is out. I would wear spray ons but they reak. They smell up my room for like a day, and they all have an obnoxious smell in my opinion. What do u guys use?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diablo

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I used to have the same problem until I started trimming my underarm hair (#3 guard on a pair of clippers). Since then, I've used Mitchum unscented gel and never had a problem with 'yellow pits'.
 

Bible_Belt

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Those are both good tips. I think the stains are from sweat and not the deodorant? Coffee makes me sweat more, but I like it too much to give up, so I just buy t-shirts more often. They are not that expensive.
 
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