"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Denim Blue Jean Jackets : Yes or No?

skirtChaser

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yeah leather is totally played out, a friend of mine that has no game and never gets laid always wears this lame black leather coat, I'm constantly telling him to retire the jacket. he wears the thing like a little security blanket. summer, spring, winter, I keep telling him he is too predictable. the guy never listeens to my advice so I never give him any more. I would give him a link to a site like this but he acts as if he can't even read. I've about given up on the chump, he constantly wants to go to this lame 80s disco in the "total white trailer trash" side of town, I've gone with him a couple of times and its really lame, all the women look trashy and they drool all over all black guys, not that its a problem, I just don't like anybody putting anybody on a pedestal. see what wearing a denin or leather jacket gets ya?......I bet a guy wearing a really tight small denin jacket would be a huge hit sensation in a "gay bar". I just like pue tang way too much to even care what goes on in a gay bar, I just don't want to dress like I just got back from one though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Evzone

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My wardrobe is simpler since I just have a lot of athletic-style clothing, like Adidas or Nike jackets, which are always in style. When you need to go high class, JNY sportcoat...apparently they don't make menswear anymore, but I got a nice black suit for them for interviews and such, and the jacket looks very nice on its own
 

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skirtChaser said:
yeah leather is totally played out, a friend of mine that has no game and never gets laid always wears this lame black leather coat, I'm constantly telling him to retire the jacket. he wears the thing like a little security blanket. summer, spring, winter, I keep telling him he is too predictable. the guy never listeens to my advice so I never give him any more. I would give him a link to a site like this but he acts as if he can't even read. I've about given up on the chump, he constantly wants to go to this lame 80s disco in the "total white trailer trash" side of town, I've gone with him a couple of times and its really lame, all the women look trashy and they drool all over all black guys, not that its a problem, I just don't like anybody putting anybody on a pedestal. see what wearing a denin or leather jacket gets ya?......I bet a guy wearing a really tight small denin jacket would be a huge hit sensation in a "gay bar". I just like pue tang way too much to even care what goes on in a gay bar, I just don't want to dress like I just got back from one though.
leather isn't really played out, but black leather is. it screams "I wanted to buy a jacket and look cool but I have no idea what looks good these days". The right leather jacket can look really good on you, but you can't just go out and get any ol' leather jacket and be like "damn now I look sexy!" I don't know what's going on in the rest of your post though.

Oh, and the worst are black leather biker jackets, with tons of zippers and sh*t. Unless you're 220lbs, have tons of tattoos and ride a Harley, it just looks lame.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The new fashion trend for 2008 is a suit with matching short.
 
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