Demonstrating Higher Social Value

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

donpepot

Don Juan

Jan 30, 2007

kickureface said:
i dont get why facing someone when talking is considered lower value. if anything, it's manners and usually a display of genuine interest.

SHOWING HEAVY INTEREST IN EARLY STAGES = I NEED YOU I NEED YOU = IM LOWER THAN YOU IM LOWER THAN YOU...

Before going to the 'hey girl I'm interested in you"stage, you establish first that youre more higher than her in order for her to feel flatered bcoz youre interested in her...Showing interest without stabillizin youre social value is like one of the basic reasons why girls find some males annoying.