Demonstrating Higher Social Value

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

donpepot

Don Juan

Jan 30, 2007

kickureface said:
i dont get why facing someone when talking is considered lower value. if anything, it's manners and usually a display of genuine interest.

SHOWING HEAVY INTEREST IN EARLY STAGES = I NEED YOU I NEED YOU = IM LOWER THAN YOU IM LOWER THAN YOU...

Before going to the 'hey girl I'm interested in you"stage, you establish first that youre more higher than her in order for her to feel flatered bcoz youre interested in her...Showing interest without stabillizin youre social value is like one of the basic reasons why girls find some males annoying.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.