"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Demise Of Guys

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http://www.city-data.com/forum/relationships/1821150-demise-guys-porn-video-games.html


My contribution:

If women want guys to choose and commit to them over other things (games, hookup culture, and porn), then women need to improve themselves and be worthy of investment. I had a nice long post to explain this in better detail, but I think this blog post sums up my sentiment pretty well:

http://www.returnofkings.com/2123/40-pictures-that-show-the-decline-of-american-women

Combine the above with men getting wise that the game is rigged against them by watching their fathers, older brothers, uncles, friends, and coworkers taken to the cleaners in divorce, plus easy sex thank's to women's lib, and guys are turning off the marriage and commitment faucet in droves. Just look at how quickly things like the manosphere and seduction community have grown. These aren't guys who just one day decided they were going to become a part of it. Nope, these are guys who were DRIVEN to them by things that have happened to them by the women in their lives.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Demise of Guys': How video games and porn are ruining a generation
Guys

GUYS

GUYS

Fvck me, getting anyone to say MEN these days is like pulling teeth. But therein lies the rub.


That first article is the usual brain death piece demonizing the symptoms but never the cause. A cut and paste of a hundred other articles of the same BS
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Guys

GUYS

GUYS

Fvck me, getting anyone to say MEN these days is like pulling teeth. But therein lies the rub.
Must be too early in the morning for my long weekend sleep in, but as I saw the title, I thought it was about the demise of the *word* "guys" and the return of the word "men".

Anyway, b1tches gonna b1tch. :crackup:
 

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that is not true, men is going to porn because there is no sex in real life .
regarding to video games , I think the most attack is because it is some thing only "Men" enjoy it because it is involved testosterone hormone ,
what about the fat girl who watch the TV all the day ?

comment from one of the guys :
Bobby56 • 10 months ago

The Demise of Gals: How Materialistic vices such as the HGTV, the shopping network, soap opra"s, Woman's Soft Porn Novels have turned American woman into consumers, shoppers and lovers of Wealth and Money.. Their brains now believe that in order to be happy , you need a 3000 square foot house with 3 baths and a huge modern kitchen.. Cloths, jewerly, fashion this is the modern American woman.. I consume, I buy , therefore I exist.. But of couse the female authors only see males as the problem.. takes two to tango, gals!
 

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bty , problem 1 in the west now a days is addiction of women to the sex , and that is the main reason why they dont want to have families and have kids .
they spend their best fertility years jumping from guy to guy , then they complain at 30 why men playing video games and not wanting amazing women like them .
this sex addiction for women is destroying the nations (at least Canada )
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The entitlement issues out there are ridiculous. A post that BB made a long time ago made me take a hard look at myself. Basically taking inventory of what you personally bring to the table and how it should align with your expectations of the girl you deserve. If you want that 8 wifey, what do you bring to the table to get that? Problem with that is a hard 6 nowadays ( woman) thinks she deserves a guy that at least a 8 in looks, will up her status in life via new care or house, bring it in the bedroom and be amazing socially. Meanwhile, she's rode a ton of **** in her prime, is chubby, is renting, mediocre salary, and has attitude. And to top it off has no self awareness or accountability. No wonder men are turning to porn and video games....these are things that let us temporarily escape reality...now why would anyone wanna do that? When reality bites, that's when.
 

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Reading some of the comments.make me smile. It seems a lot of guys are saying the same things about women today that sites like this and RT and ch say. The message is spreading and or the experiences are the same. This makes me think there will be w response and a corrective balance to be struck somewhere down the line. Maybe a massive depression or some other catastrophic event will reset things to their natural order, who knows. **** is unhealthy atm. This from a guy who can get laid np. ***** is at an all time low right now.
 

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evan12 said:
bty , problem 1 in the west now a days is addiction of women to the sex , and that is the main reason why they dont want to have families and have kids .
they spend their best fertility years jumping from guy to guy , then they complain at 30 why men playing video games and not wanting amazing women like them .
this sex addiction for women is destroying the nations (at least Canada )
women are not addicted to sex

they are addicted to power

that is why men....never gave them power

today women have too much power courtesy of the state and faggot men....this is the cause of women's arrogance and ignorance
 

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disgustipated said:
The entitlement issues out there are ridiculous. A post that BB made a long time ago made me take a hard look at myself. Basically taking inventory of what you personally bring to the table and how it should align with your expectations of the girl you deserve. If you want that 8 wifey, what do you bring to the table to get that? Problem with that is a hard 6 nowadays ( woman) thinks she deserves a guy that at least a 8 in looks, will up her status in life via new care or house, bring it in the bedroom and be amazing socially. Meanwhile, she's rode a ton of **** in her prime, is chubby, is renting, mediocre salary, and has attitude. And to top it off has no self awareness or accountability. No wonder men are turning to porn and video games....these are things that let us temporarily escape reality...now why would anyone wanna do that? When reality bites, that's when.
It is a holiday weekend here in the United States. My facebook page is full of single women posting pictures that are away in resorts. They don't have a care in the world for saving money for the future because they know their husbands will have to pay for everything. Basically women expect everything without really bringing anything to the table except a p***y which will depreciate anyway
 

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As I have said here many times before, there's only room for about 10% of males to be true Alphas. If you are in the other 90%, your only realisticshot at having a real 'hottie" (at least for a while, 5 years) is to get a third world woman. After the 5 years are up and she's a US citizen, tho, watch OUT.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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seasonedplayer said:
It is a holiday weekend here in the United States. My facebook page is full of single women posting pictures that are away in resorts. They don't have a care in the world for saving money for the future because they know their husbands will have to pay for everything. Basically women expect everything without really bringing anything to the table except a p***y which will depreciate anyway
women need to be trained too , just like kids or they will become spoiled.
when you buy some thing special to your woman , make her feel obligated to at least say thank you , if she wasn't gracious to what you did , stop giving her new things until she learn the lesson .
in other words use stick and carrot .
 

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what a dumb feminist article. here's a nice comment a reader wrote regarding it:

The Demise of Gals: How Materialistic vices such as the HGTV, the shopping network, soap opra"s, Woman's Soft Porn Novels have turned American woman into consumers, shoppers and lovers of Wealth and Money.. Their brains now believe that in order to be happy , you need a 3000 square foot house with 3 baths and a huge modern kitchen.. Cloths, jewerly, fashion this is the modern American woman.. I consume, I buy , therefore I exist.. But of couse the female authors only see males as the problem.. takes two to tango, gals!
 
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