DeManding Respect?!?

[Speed Demond]

Ok..i'v been going threw the search alot and been looking on demanding respect and couldn't find nothing specific so i came to you guys....Every one has been saying Demand Respect from ppl....Demand it...lalal...But How exactly do you do that?

 

[biobotz1001]

my take

My take is that you don't demand respect, you earn it. If someone else isn't showing you respect, it seems odd to demand it. If they are acting disrespectful then I would tell them that they are acting unacceptably, and either tell them to leave or leave whereever you are.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: my take

Originally posted by biobotz1001
My take is that you don't demand respect, you earn it. If someone else isn't showing you respect, it seems odd to demand it. If they are acting disrespectful then I would tell them that they are acting unacceptably, and either tell them to leave or leave whereever you are.

I agree, respect is commanded not demanded. Carry yourself appropriately and most of the time you will receive the appropriate respect. In the instances that it isn't given, it is as simple as telling the other person that you will not stand around and allow them to disrepect you. At that point you can either confront the situation or choose to let it blow over by walking away.

 

[Player_Supreme]

With your actions and your attitude. Let me give you an example:

Last thurs I went to this resturant. there was a girl who was choosing big time. When she and her male friend stood up to leave, the dude went inside the building. I made my move. I went over and chatted for a few minutes and got her phone number. I left and called her a couple of hours later to leave my number. She called back and we spoke and made a coffee date for this tue...yesterday.

In doing my coffee interigation convo thing the girl says to me that she is very demanding on men and quite a challenge to be with, hence why she doesn't have a boyfriend as good as she looked. She further stated that men give up real quick.

I made a hmmph sound and told her she had something on her shirt when she looked down I flipped her lips. She cracked the f*uck up and said no man has ever had the nerve to do that too her.

After that it was smooth sailing. She even walked over and got me a napkin and started mistakenly calling me baby and honey.

All she needed was a man who would stand up to her to put her in her rightful place which is below a man. Her problems is that she is pretty and tall and muscularly strong (teaches aerobics) and of strong scottish decent with that red/blond mass of curly/wavy hair. So most fools get their painties in a bunch when dealing with her.

My point is if your coming from the place of a DJ/player/mack or whatever you want to call yourself your actions will create the respect that you need.

You have to live and breath being a player and act the part of one. You must change the inside in order for the outside to change.