Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Deliver the flowers with myself??? WTF??

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Don Juan
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Greetings followers of the forum . .:up:

. . . .Here's the deal, I'm more battle hardened to know better but . . .I just bought a brand new car, and before driving it off the forecourt I had to get it insured...To do this I had to deal with a very cute insurance broker . . .

. .So there I was , went through the motions, made her laugh so on and so forth, but as I was busy I missed the chance to get her personal phone number...So a few weeks pass and I need some (genuine) clarification regarding the insurance....

. . . . . . Then after the formalities were completed I said, jokingly, that with the money I saved I will buy her flowers, but the only condition is she will have to collect them herself...She said that might be difficult(as it would be a two hour drive)... But we arranged to speak the next day . . .

. . So when I call her again and everything is cleared up, I agai jokingly mention that I got her the flowers and if she wants to meet half way . .She saidshe's not in a position to accept, but if I deliver them to her together with myself it would be wonderful . . . .:crazy:..I told her I may surprise her

...Question is , is she f*cking with me...I'm all for romance and spontaneity, but to go for a near two hour drive , to then just get a "thank you" and then get the finger is a bit much . . .:moon: Though she is really cute . . .


. . . . Is this just a symptom of oneitis/desperation derived from boredom, or if the girl wants a play, I should play along!?

Opinions please . . .:nervous:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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