You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You're the fvckin man.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's not about the pictures...it is about censorship. I don't take being called stubborn as criticism. I AM stubborn, saying so is simply stating a fact. I'm tenacious, to say the least...and I consider that to be an asset, not a shortcoming.Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
Come on now, Wyldfire, you are being criticized in every other post by forum members for being stubborn and not willing to compromise. It's time to end your arguments because Eternal and the mods are doing their jobs and enforcing the rules as stated by Allen.
If it's about censorship, why "vent" over one thread that you started for another member some time ago (the pic thread), when you could've easily found some free webspace and posted all those pictures there?
Hmm....
Hot Ice has an IRC chat that I believe is independent of SoSuave.com but has DJ'ing as it's theme.
If you were interested in getting those pictures to that person, you can still do so.
As far as censorship goes, Allen owns the webspace and makes the rules, the moderators are like the police of this site, they patrol and make sure that the rules are enforced and once a thread is submitted it becomes intellectual property of SoSuave.com and thus subject to Adm./Mod. rule.
Amen to that, AFK.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.