"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Deleted ex from FB. Message common friend?

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Hi.. So, I've decided I don't want her to be my friend, real life or otherwise. Luckily we don't share many friends and there's actually only one of her friends that was always really nice and me and her boyfriend even got along well.

I will also delete this person, because it is very likely I'd see photos of my ex on her profile or something similar in the future. Should I send a message to this girl? and tell her I hope she understands I don't mean to be an ******* but it's just time for me to flip the page on anything associated with the ex.

Regards,
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Walk away

No.

Just MOVE ON and learn the lessons from the breakup.

Always cultivate your own friendships and interests that have NOTHING TO DO WITH any girl that you're going to be dating/plating/fvcking

Remember her friends are her friends and the extent of which you get attached to her and her friends is the extent that you have entered into her reality.

Learn to stay detached.
 
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She Probably Won't Even Notice

Considering that she's like most chicks on FB and uses it as means to get her daily attention fix, more than likely she won't even notice that you've deleted her from your friend's list. However, if she does reach out to you asking why you deleted her then explain why.
 
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Maximus Rex said:
Considering that she's like most chicks on FB and uses it as means to get her daily attention fix, more than likely she won't even notice that you've deleted her from your friend's list. However, if she does reach out to you asking why you deleted her then explain why.
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yeah she won't notice, also you do know you can just put her profile on no showing on your feed right? I do this with people who most liked post stupid things and keep it around just because to prevent possible dramas, so as long waht she post don't show on my feed I don't even remember she is there
 
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Alvafe said:
yeah she won't notice, also you do know you can just put her profile on no showing on your feed right? I do this with people who most liked post stupid things and keep it around just because to prevent possible dramas, so as long waht she post don't show on my feed I don't even remember she is there
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I do know that, but right now the temptation of going in and stalk her profile is too big, I don't need that. Plus, even if I limit those settings or even remove from friends, I'd still have the option (risk) of sending a message on a drunk night. Thus the full on block.

You have more self-control than me obvioulsy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Delete it. While you're at it...delete FB from your life altogether. Perfect time to do so. You'll be better off. Do you realize that you are taking time out of your day to consider whether or not you should delete someone from your FB account? I'm not picking on you, but in the grand scheme of things does it really matter? People make it sound like they are make life decisions by removing someone from their FB contacts. Chicks are FB stalkers and use it as an attention wh0ring tool, as Rex already said. Consider getting rid of it.
 
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She will notice, then shell stalk your page for a while, youll do the same, then it will all settle with time. Normal.
 
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Delete your FB account. And there is not such thing as common friends.
 
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