You want an honest opinion? OK, here's goes. It won't be liked, but oh well.
1) A big portion of women who cry rape, haven't been technically raped.
2) Someone who has been raped will probably have real problems.
3) Someone who cries rape but hasn't been raped is likely an attention hor.
4) Based on 2 and 3, you should probably steer clear if the word 'rape' appears.
5) Most women who cry rape and/or sexual abuse likely brought it on themselves and did nothing to stop the activity because, frankly, they wanted the attention.
6) If you were drunk or high, you cannot cry rape. You lose credibility.
That is all. Rape happens, but not always. Real rape is a VERY warped up sort of thing and causes serious mental breakdowns. 100% one-sided rape is not as common as many say it is. But it does happen, unfortunately.