"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Delete your myspace

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Delete myspace and stay scarce on messenger - sign off, dont just put an away message.

All myspace and messenger will do is give you opportunities to mess up your game.

Everyone (most people) have a Myspace. Be different, be mysterious, be scarce. If people get too much of you they wont be interested.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I agree with you. My myspace account has long been deleted. Thanks to sosuave.net
 

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....what?

People use myspace more than to just pick up c hicks. For instance I'm away from home for two months and its cool to be able to keep up with friends. Not to mention you can be EXTREMELY mysterious on myspace without giving to much away. I'll post my link a little later when I'm home, plus I wanna change my pictures its been a long time lol.
 

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Theres nothing wrong with myspace its just don't be a doumbass and write your life story on it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Re:

This thread makes no sense. Myspace is a social networking site not an adult dating site. How about redoing this thread and instead saying dont use MySpace as your only source to meet girls instead of telling everyone to delete their accounts. My game has been fine before the internet and during the internet...
 

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Actually, you just appear to be living under a rock, especially if you're under 25. Maybe you should get rid of your cell phone because it makes you seem mysterious and "hard to reach" as well? It'd be really groovy of you to get rid of your car too, maaaan. You'll get all the bushy hippie ***** you want then! If you wear a loin cloth to the clerb and let your fat hairy gut hang out, you would definitely be a mystery! :rolleyes:

Girls like guys who are different and edgey, but not so different that they can't relate or come off as some off-mainstream wierdo. Myspace is the norm for the young crowd. Get used to it.
 

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Myspace is an avenue to meet girls. It is but one.

It is always an advantage for someone to have as many options as possible.

By foregoing net-dating, you are eliminating a very lucrative option.

Keep an open mind.
 

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I'm way ahead of everybody I don't even have a myspace account meeting people on the internet and having a cellphone are two things i refuse to have
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hi2u

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I mean, yeah, why have modern conveniences when you could just live off the grid maaaaan?
 

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I deleted MySpace a while ago. It's been great so far without it. I do have a cell phone, but I don't live on it. I've got the cheapest plan, it does the job.
 

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UUUrrrrggghh, I'm too old, never had myspace and don't want myspace. I know I have a real woman when I approach her in real life.
 

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um NO!!!

its seriously way easier for me to log on myspace and hit up my boys/girls.. vs calling and wasting minutes..

i wrote a good deal about myself.. because it said about me.. im not AFC or anything.. i def agree there should be mystery but im basically on myspace to meet new people with common interests and mindsets.. i truthfully mostly use it to keep in touch with friends around world in military, friends in ny and texas, car enthusiasts, etc.. pretty much as an alternative to meeting people in real life...shouldnt say alternative cause i meet a lot of peeps in real life too.. but yea i guess thats about it..

this is my myspace.. check it out and if u honestly think im AFC thats cool too.. not to worried abt it lol..

http://www.myspace.com/7321434
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't think its stupid, but its alot of work without having my liscense so I tend not to do it.

I think alot of guys are STILL missing the point of being a DJ. It kinda saddens me to look down on the general board and see topics like these. Trying to change or be different from the crowd for WOMEN. If you want a myspace, great, make one. If not, then don't have one. Don't try to be a mysterious challenge with the ladies, what are you going to say if they ask why you have one? Someone who is honest and just doesn't want one will say jus that, but I can guarantee you someone who wants to be seen as different and cool will come up with some stupid answer like, "I don't like to follow the crowd". Get over yourself, you are living for YOU not for anyone else, so start ACTING like it.
 

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You guys should just look at Myspace as a way to market yourself.

-Don't post pics of you with every girl you've ever seen
-Don't give out tons of info; maybe a job title and some hobbies
-Sorry to guy above but posting pics of yourself flexing is.. well, kinda lame.
-Don't have a bunch of crappy (tacky) musical add-on's and things floating on your page

-DO post pics of you out and about with friends
-DO have a family shot in there somewhere
-DO have a pic with a chick or two (pick the best)
-DO check your spelling and grammar

The idea here is that if you give a girl your name, it's almost guaranteed that she'll look you up before a date. You want to convey a fun, friendly and interesting angle, not that of some roid-monkey bent on conquering the world with his thug friends- sure, you might think that's cool but I guarantee some MBA grad HB10 won't. You want to look like you're approachable (remember, someone may be checking out local profiles and just happen to run into you in person) and you want to create depth by limiting the information, not expanding on it!

This is one of the few times that you completely control the stage on which you appear. Make it a good one!
 

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If I've said it once I've said it a thousand times. If you're going to set up a myspace account, use it for something useful. Hitting on girls over an emotionless piece of hardware does not qualify as good time managment. My former room mate went out with just one girl over myspace, I won't go into the details but it was not a good experience and I had to rescue him from the situation (I HATE rescue missions!).

I digress, I have a myspace account myself and I'm not ashamed to admit it. However the only people on my "friends list" are either club/bar owners/promoters, some of my legitmate friends, and buisness contacts that can help me out in the difficult to master casino administration game. There are no random wh*res from UNLV, there are no models who have a million plus friends who I will never meet as long as I live, there are no fictional characters, there are no in animate objects (I think I saw a listing for "The Brick Wall" and yes it was a person posting a brick wall), and there never will be. I use myspace to better my social status, but I don't believe it can or will ever sucsessfully become a route for me to pick up women outside of my conventional methods.
Recycled. That is my stance on myspacing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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