Delayed texts...on the fence about next step

[max1017]

Hey guys,

On the fence about current situation. I'll keep it short.

Met a girl at a club last Thursday. Was pretty drunk don't even remember how we met. Made out got her number.

Next day (Friday) after a couple small talk texts ask her if she wants to do drinks Sunday. She confirms she does momentary after.

Saturday reply asking what part of the city she lives. No response.

Sunday night I figure I'll text her again for a kamikaze if it works great if not, whatever. She replies apologizing and said she ended up getting way too drunk Saturday and suggests we meet during the week.I say sounds good, told her when I'm free and asked what jives with her.

Nothing.

.....Until this evening where she texts back, apologizes with another lame excuse and asks if I'm free tomorrow or Friday.

Whole conversation was maybe 10 texts total.

Ignore? Tell her I'm busy and to do it next week? Meet with her?

I'm always very direct and they either go for it it works out or they simply dont answer and we move on. Its the wishy washy stuff like this that throws me off.

Would appreciate some input

Thanks gents

 

[dustmuffin]

she offered two days....Pick one, take her out escalate and try to fu ck her.

 

[Fugitive]

Girls are wishy-washy as you put it.

Next time instead of telling a girl when you're free, ask her when she is free. That way you don't look too available and she can't say she's busy on the days you suggest.

For this time go with what dustmuffin said and pick a day she suggested. You don't want to reject her offer in a show of self-importance as she might lose interest and you can demonstrate your value in other ways such as being assertive on the date.

 

[Tictac]

She's less than interested.

Unless she responds with a date/time/place certain, she's just trying not to say 'no' overtly.

Act accordingly.

 

[70th Win]

If she's offering a different day that's a good sign generally. If you're free that day agree and set a date up.

If she agrees on the day that she suggested and then flakes with any excuse, you should pull back.

 

[guru1000]

Do you want to fvck her? Yes? Ask for the date.

 

[RangerMIke]

Her interest level is just barely there, on she doesn't have her sh!t together. Make a date on Thursday and see what happens, if she flakes forget about her.