"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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delayed ejaculation?

nubian-knight

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yea so im 18 healthy....never had this problem before but ive been sleeping with this girl, who im attracted to for the last 2 months and have yet to actually finish with her. sometimes after a good hour of sex i pretend to finish so i can pass out.

ive tried switching to any position i can think of to make it more exciting

whats going on? i have no problem jerking off so that rules out any physical problems. i only masturbate like 2 - 3 times a week so i guess i should cut that out completely.

any tips to solve this prob? blue balls is getting old
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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smooth guy

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Are you taking any medication? It's a common side effect of some medications to give you difficulty ejaculating.

But bro, if you can go on for an hour I wouldn't be THAT worried, unless you wanna have her pregnant from 18 then you're good. Just make sure it's nothing serious.
 

lordson

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you're masturbating way too much

it does affect your sex, i would definately cut the masturbating

and you'll have no problem finishing, i would say its your libido being down because of all the jacking off
 
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