Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Deicide

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April 17-23
This was a shorter week in terms of length(Got out of school on Friday).
Still, I did my approaching like always. Notable approaches.
HB 8 Asian
I saw her at Wal-Mart and opened with "Hey, you look like you've been working out?" and she said she had been running. It was a short conversation and I didn't hook her in.
HB 7 Professional
I saw her at Wal Mart and I opened with "Hey, I guess you're on your lunch break from work"?". Approach was going well, until I found out she was working for my college! F*ck that! Still, she was a nice girl.
HB 7 Chinese Music
I met her walking back from class and I opened with "Hey, are you going to some hard class", and we got on the topic of music, and it was very easy to tease her due to her shy/friendly personality. I broke off from the approach myself and didn't follow her(alpha trait).
HB 7 Chinese Student
I opened her with "Hey, you look like you've been doing schoolwork all day?". She told me "Sorry". LOL I told her that it was cool, and we had a fun conversation about life in general. Then her professor who she was waiting on interrupted my approach.
HB 5 Hispanic
I opened her with a neg opener "Hey, I like your hair, but I don't know why you have it pulled up like that? It pissed her off, lol, but I was able to smooth things over and have a normal conversation. Still, I don't like her personality, and if I ever had any regrets over a cold approach, it may be this one.
HB 7 Korean Writing
I noticed her walking up the stairs and I opened her with "Hey, are you going to some interesting class", and we talked until the 2nd floor where she stopped for me. I teased her about her accent and she was laughing. Though, I should've stayed longer in the approach as I could've number closed.

HB 7 Blonde Tattoo
She was walking near me when I opened her about her tattoo visible on her upper back. We talked for a minute or so, then she got sidetracked by her friends. I ended up name closing with her, but that was it.
HB 6 Blonde
The circumstances of this approach made me nervous as hell. She was doing schoolwork at a table by herself. I waited 30 mins. to approach her because I had Japanese lab work to do. Then I finally did and my nerves killed me. I opened her with "Hey, what type of computer do you have?". Conversation went for another 30 seconds and I bailed, and she probably thought WTF.

HB 6 Colombian flaked on our date. I got a number from a HB 6 Black who showed IOI's. And I realized that I need to get over my AA and focus on approaches that are away from proximity. Like the cute girl in that far corner away from me. The dynamics of those approaches make me more nervous than usual.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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